Common sense of etiquette in Chinese weddings

1. What are the etiquette procedures for Chinese weddings? I want to have a Chinese wedding, but I don't know anything about Chinese weddings.

I don't know where you want to know. Weddings in China have different etiquette procedures in different places and at different times. Let me talk about the etiquette in my hometown. First of all, the man should prepare six kinds of gifts and send them to the woman's house in a festive bag to show good luck. Then on the wedding day, the bride should get up early to wash her hair and take a bath, change her underwear and some hooded clothes, and the makeup artist should comb her hair and make up her bride. After the groom's limousine came to pick it up, my uncle took the bride from the room to the hall. There is a sieve in the hall, which contains six kinds of gifts from new officials. There is a stool beside the sieve. The bride's feet can't touch the ground, so she should put it in a sieve, sit on a stool and let Xi Niang comb her hair. Because the bride had been combed by the makeup artist in advance, Xi Niang only symbolically used a comb. Then a child will bring you new shoes, put them on and get ready to go. The bridesmaid will open an umbrella and set off firecrackers, and then my uncle will take the limousine on his back to the groom's house. I said this is relatively simple, and now the procedure is much simpler. If the procedures of my mother's generation are troublesome, getting married is very tiring, and there is a big gap between the north and the south. My in-laws have different wedding customs now.

2. What are the etiquette of Chinese wedding?

As soon as the wedding day arrives, the groom will personally lead the ceremony to get married.

The man went to the woman's house to meet the bride. Giving the goose as a gift is called "Dean's Banquet" in the Book of Rites. Goose only gets married once in its life, which expresses the beautiful wish of the new couple to be faithful, sing with the harp and the harp and grow old together.

Most weddings in Beijing in the Qing Dynasty imitated royal etiquette. A person dressed in the front is responsible for opening the way, followed by dodge cards, drummers, gongs and drums, flags and so on. At the same time, melons, cymbals, cymbals and other weapons are also arranged in the ceremonial ranks. The groom rides a horse or sits in the green sedan chair in front. The bride's embroidered red sedan chair followed, which was really imposing. At this time, the groom is like a champion, so it is no wonder that marriage is a "quiz".

When the sedan chair arrives at the door of the woman's house, the woman's house must be closed. This is called blocking the door. The man knocked at the door outside and urged the bride to get on the sedan chair.

At this time, there will be a courtesy answer, and someone in the woman's family will come in with a red face. "When the door is blocked for a certain period of time, this person can enter the door.

After entering the door, the man not only sends special greetings, but also presents. These gifts vary greatly from time to time and from place to place, but they all have festive significance.

The way home from marriage. You must go the other way. It means "no turning back". If you meet temples, wells, shrines, graves, big stones and trees on the road, you should spread blankets to speed up the sedan chair and ward off evil spirits.

When the bride's sedan chair and ceremonial ceremony returned to the man's door, the man's door was closed as usual, saying that it could be used to evil the bride's temper. After the gate is opened, the sedan chair must pass through the brazier before it can be carried into the yard. When the relatives and the bride's brother are sent away, the sedan chair will enter the eighth yard to rest and hold a banquet.

In the old days, the bride had to sprinkle some grains, beans and grasses. After entering the door. The original intention is to ward off evil spirits-the three evil spirits (Qingyang God, Black-bone Chicken God and Qingniu God) are busy pecking, so they won't hurt the bride. Now the bride got off the sedan chair and took off the scraps of paper, which may be the reason.

When it's time to get off the sedan chair, carry it to the door of the hall. At this time, the groom bowed three times to the car door, which was opened by his wife who saw the bride off, and the bridesmaid helped the bride get off.

Then give the bride a small porcelain bottle containing two or four circles of yellow and white grains. The bride held the water bottle in her arms and left with the help of the bridesmaid and the wife who saw her off.

In addition, two people put red carpets on the front and back to keep the bride's feet from leaving the ground. At this time, the groom has stood in front of the case of heaven and earth, holding a bow and arrow and shooting three arrows at the bride to drive away evil spirits.

The archery posture is to shoot an arrow, take a step back, and then the bride crosses the saddle and walks into the basin. After these formalities are completed, the wedding will be held before the confession. As the saying goes, "worship heaven and earth". After entering the bridal chamber to worship heaven and earth, the bride was led into the bridal chamber.

After the bride and groom enter the bridal chamber, the ceremony is also a series. The first thing is to sit on the bill, also called sitting on the bed. The bride and groom are all sitting on the edge of the kang in the bridal chamber. The groom presses his left skirt on the bride's right skirt, which means that the man will overwhelm the woman.

Sprinkling happy fruit in the account is also called "paying off the account". Generally, the scattered items are dates, chestnuts and peanuts. , homophonic "early seeds" and "peanuts". The next program is to eat children's cakes. The children's cakes were brought by the farewell wife from her daughter's house.

After eating children's cakes, you should also eat longevity noodles, which are prepared by men, meaning that children and grandchildren will live forever. Then there is "Lian" wine, also called toast.

Use a red rope. Tie a cup at each end, and the bride and groom drink half a cup each. Then exchange cups and finish the wine in the cup. A toast ceremony was held in the bridal chamber, and then a banquet was held in the hall. As the saying goes, "reunion dinner". I let the bride and groom sit in their seats, and all the other guests sat with me, indicating that they have become a family since then.

The custom of "disturbing the bridal chamber" has been popular since the Han Dynasty. Besides amusing, there are other meanings, such as making the bridal chamber lively, driving away the feeling of being deserted and unhappy, and increasing the joyful atmosphere of the wedding. Therefore, some places are also called "greenhouses". In the past, men and women were introduced by many people who were not familiar with each other. Making a bridal chamber can help them get rid of formality.

In modern weddings in China, the custom of toasting and making love in the bridal chamber is basically retained, but they are all moved to weddings. For example, wedding games are the inheritance and evolution of the custom of making bridal chamber.

According to the traditional etiquette in China, men and women need "three media in six" to get married, which is the so-called "three books and six rituals". "Three Books" refers to the documents exchanged in the process of wedding engagement, namely, the letter of engagement, the letter of engagement, the letter of welcome, and the letter of welcome from the man to the woman.

"Six rites" refers to the process from finding relatives and matchmaking to getting married and finishing marriage. Specifically: Li Na. The man asked someone to prepare a gift and propose to the woman as a matchmaker.

Name-asking: The man wrote down his name, official title and date of birth on the red Geng post, and the matchmaker sent it to the woman's home. If the girl's family is going to get married, write down the girl's name and ask someone to count it.

Najib: If the characters of the man and the woman are not contradictory, they initially agree to get married. Conscription: Also called gift. Similar to today's engagement.

Invitation: Choose an auspicious day to get married. In the old days, auspicious days were usually bimonthly and bimonthly. I don't like to choose March, June and November.

Wedding: On the wedding day, the man came to the woman's house with a marriage certificate to marry the bride. A few days before the wedding, the custom of towel wedding is to put the couple's new bed in the new house, cover it with bedding and sheets, then cover it with dragon and phoenix quilts, and put all kinds of happy fruits on it, such as peanuts, red dates, longan and lotus seeds. In other words, the couple will have a baby early.

In the old society, it was stipulated that the groom's brother of the same age could make trouble in the new house. The old people think that "this will not cause trouble for the new couple." The more noisy they are, the more noisy they will be. "They can ward off evil spirits for newcomers. After marriage, they were very lucky. Dowry dowry is the escort of the woman's family and a symbol of her family status and wealth.

The dowry will be delivered to the in-laws at the latest the day before the wedding. Of course, customs and pay attention to different places.

On the day when the bride is greeted with a red umbrella, the bride's sister or bridesmaid will help her out of the bride's house and stand in the open air. The bridesmaid or bridesmaid will put a red umbrella on the bride's head. Spread the branches and leaves and scatter the rice to the sky and the top of the umbrella.

Since the Southern Song Dynasty, sedan chairs have become the core part of traditional weddings. Four people carry it together.

Eight people bring two kinds. And dragon sedan chair, sedan chair.

The sedan chair is covered with a red curtain, embroidered with dragons and phoenixes, and the four corners are hung with silk ears. Flag gong umbrella fan: in the wedding procession, in front of the sedan chair.

Let the whole wedding ceremony become vivid and spectacular. Firecrackers: The wedding sedan chair should set off firecrackers all the way.

Guan Feng Xia Di: People who marry women, rich or poor, are very picky about their wedding dresses, wearing red coats, embroidered shoes, fringed belts and skirts.

3. What are the precautions for Chinese weddings?

Chinese weddings mainly show a simple, festive and warm atmosphere. Chinese weddings are becoming more and more popular with newcomers, but people don't know that they are also very particular about the choice of Chinese wedding venues.

Matters needing attention in the selection of Chinese wedding venue 1: In the antique Chinese architecture, red words of joy are usually posted on the site, and the bride can wear a wedding dress or a cheongsam. Matters needing attention in choosing Chinese wedding venue: Shanghai cuisine and Cantonese cuisine are generally provided.

Try it once according to the selected menu to confirm the taste and color of the dishes. Matters needing attention in the selection of Chinese wedding venue 3: venue environment Traditional wedding customs require the couple to toast one table at a time, so the cup should not be too large, and the couple should prepare some hangover drinks when drinking on an empty stomach.

In addition, the wedding banquet can be held in the form of buffet. You don't have to be confined to the banquet hall. You can choose lawns, terraces, cruise ships and other romantic outdoor venues. Holding a buffet wedding reception in such a place can not only enjoy the beautiful sunshine, but also speak freely, which is not limited to square inches and more casual.

4. What are the contents of Chinese wedding etiquette?

Let me talk about the etiquette in my hometown. First of all, the man should prepare six kinds of gifts and send them to the woman's house in a festive bag, indicating good luck. Then on the wedding day, the bride will get up early to wash her hair and take a shower, put on underwear and some pullovers, and the makeup artist will comb her hair and make her up. After the groom's car came to pick it up, the uncle carried the bride from the room to the hall, where there was a sieve. There are six kinds of gifts from new officials in the sieve, and there is a stool next to the sieve. The bride's feet should not touch the ground, but should be placed in a sieve and sat on a stool. Because the bride has been combed by the makeup artist in advance, the bride only symbolically combs your hair with a comb, and then a child will bring you new shoes. After putting on her shoes, she was ready to go and was beaten by the bridesmaid. It was simpler when it was delivered to the groom's house. Now the procedure is much simpler. If the procedures of my mother's generation are troublesome, getting married is very tiring, and the gap between the north and the south is large. The marriage custom of my husband's family is not like this now. My classmate's marriage customs are different from place to place.

Please tell us in detail what the wedding etiquette knowledge is, thank you.

(a) The standard standing posture is straight.

Eyes looking straight ahead, mouth slightly closed, jaw narrowed, natural expression, a little smile. Shoulder level.

Shoulders level, slightly relaxed, slightly sinking back. Put your arms down.

Put your shoulders flat, your arms droop naturally, and point your middle finger at the pants seam. Strong body.

Chest out, abdomen in, waist out, buttocks tightened inward and upward. Leg joint.

Stand up straight with your legs together and your heels together. The angle between your feet is 60 degrees. This standard etiquette standing posture is different from the attention of soldiers in the army.

Manners are more natural, intimate and feminine than standing at attention. (2) Several standing postures of the service post 1. Standardizing posture (as described above).

2. Fork-handed stance: that is, cross your hands in front of your abdomen and put your right hand on your left hand to stand upright. In this standing position, men can separate their feet by no more than 20 cm.

Women can use a small T-step, that is, one foot is slightly forward and the heel is on the inside of the other foot. This kind of standing posture has a little freedom and relaxation in solemnity.

When standing, the center of gravity of the body can also be changed between the feet to reduce fatigue, which is a common receiving posture. 3. Stand behind your hands: that is, cross your hands behind your back and stick your right hand outside your left hand and between your hips.

Feet can be separated and closed. When separating, do not exceed shoulder width, spread your toes outward, make an included angle of 60 degrees between your feet, hold your chest out, close your jaw, close your abdomen, and keep your eyes straight.

This kind of standing posture is elegant and dignified, and it is easy to produce a sense of distance, so it is often used by doormen and security personnel. If your feet stand side by side instead, it highlights the meaning of respect.

4. Standing posture with hands hanging behind your back: that is, one hand is attached to your hips behind your back, the other hand is naturally drooping, your hands are naturally bent, your middle finger is aligned with the pants seam, and your feet can be together or separated, or in a small T-step. This standing posture is often used by men and looks generous, natural and free and easy.

The above-mentioned standing posture is closely related to the post work. If used properly in daily life, it will give people a feeling of being tall, handsome, solemn, elegant and full of vitality. To master these standing postures, you must undergo strict training, persist for a long time, and form a habit.

When standing, be sure to avoid poking your neck, hunching over and shrugging your shoulders. Don't put your hands in your pockets, shake your legs and feet unconsciously, lean against the door and look around to avoid leaving a bad impression. Walking posture's steady walking posture is a dynamic beauty.

Everyone is a flowing figure, and the posture of walking, who is elegant, steady and agile, will give people a good feeling, produce appeal and reflect a positive mental state. (1) The standard of walking posture is.

Eyes straight, chin closed, natural and peaceful expression. Shoulder level.

The shoulders are smooth to prevent swinging up and down. The arm naturally swings back and forth, swinging back and forth for 30~40 degrees, and the hands naturally bend, and the distance from the leg during the swing is no more than one punch.

Strong body. The upper body is straight, the abdomen is upright, and the center of gravity is slightly forward.

Go straight. The toes are slightly apart, the heel touches the ground first, and the inside of the foot touches the ground. The trajectory should be in a straight line.

The stride is right. When walking, the distance between the two feet is about one foot long, that is, the heel of the front foot is one foot away from the toe of the back foot, but there will be some differences between different sexes, different heights and different clothes.

Steady pace. The speed of travel should be even and steady, neither fast nor slow. Under normal circumstances, the pace should be natural and slow, showing maturity and confidence.

When walking, you should guard against splayed steps, bow your head and hunch your back, don't shake your shoulders, don't shake your arms, don't twist your waist and hips, don't look around, and don't wipe your feet on the ground. (2) Turning to walking posture and turning to walking posture means that when you need to turn around and change direction, you should adopt reasonable methods to show a standardized and graceful gait.

1. When you say goodbye backwards, you should take two or three steps and then turn around and leave. When you step back, you should rub your feet lightly on the ground and take a small step. Turn around first and then turn around. 2. Guide step Guide step is a gait used to walk in front to guide the guests.

When guiding, you should try to walk in front of the guest's left side, turn your whole body to the guest's direction and keep a distance of two steps. When going up and down stairs, turning corners and entering the door, you should extend your left hand to prompt the guests to go upstairs and enter the door. 3. Turn Forward When you want to turn forward, you should immediately turn your whole body around the sole of your foot after landing with one foot far away from the direction you are turning, and then take the other foot.

That is, turn left, turn right with your right foot and turn right with your left foot. Etiquette norms (2) (3) Walking posture, who wears different shoes, walking in flat shoes is natural and casual. He wants to land with his heels first, move forward at a constant speed, and walk easily and generously.

Because wearing flat shoes is not bound, it is often easy to be too casual, the stride is big and small, the speed is fast and slow, and it is easy to give people a relaxed impression because of randomness. Pay attention to prevention. Walking posture, who wears high heels, raises his heels and moves forward naturally. In order to keep your body balanced, your knees should be stretched straight, your chest should stand naturally, your abdomen should be closed, your hips should be lifted, and your waist should be straightened.

Let the walking posture be more straight and add a little charm. Walking in high heels, the stride should be small, the heel should land first, and the heels of both feet fall in a straight line, like willow leaves on wicker. This is the so-called "willow step".

When someone walks in high heels, they bend their knees to keep their balance. As a result, the walking posture is not straight, but it looks vulgar because of bending your knees and pouting your hips. People with this problem should self-train, pay attention to keep their ankles, knees and hip joints straight when marching, and hold their chests and abdomen up.

◎ Dignified sitting posture is a static shape and a very important manner. This kind of behavior is indispensable in daily work and life.

For men, there is a saying that "sitting like a death knell". A dignified and elegant sitting posture will give people an elegant, steady and generous aesthetic feeling.

(1) Eight Beautiful Sitting Positions for Women 1. Walk to the seat in the standard way, turn around and walk with your feet in a small T-shape, with your knees together and your upper body leaning forward to sit down. If you wear a skirt, when you sit down, you should put your hands around the skirt from top to bottom at the back to prevent it from wrinkling or sitting because of the discount, resulting in too many legs.

After sitting down, your upper body is straight, your shoulders are straight, your arms are naturally bent, and your hands are folded in the middle of your legs and close to your lower abdomen. Knees together, legs perpendicular to the ground, feet keep a small T-step.

2. Forward-extending type On the basis of the standard sitting posture, the two calves are extended forward, the feet are close together, and the toes are not tilted. 3. The cross in front is in front.

6. What are the etiquette of Chinese wedding?

As soon as the wedding day arrives, the groom will personally lead the ceremony to get married.

The man went to the woman's house to meet the bride. Giving the goose as a gift is called "Dean's Banquet" in the Book of Rites. Goose only gets married once in its life, which expresses the beautiful wish of the new couple to be faithful, sing with the harp and the harp and grow old together.

Most weddings in Beijing in the Qing Dynasty imitated royal etiquette. A person dressed in the front is responsible for opening the way, followed by dodge cards, drummers, gongs and drums, flags and so on. At the same time, melons, cymbals, cymbals and other weapons are also arranged in the ceremonial ranks. The groom rides a horse or sits in the green sedan chair in front. The bride's embroidered red sedan chair followed, which was really imposing. At this time, the groom is like a champion, so it is no wonder that marriage is a "quiz".

When the sedan chair arrives at the door of the woman's house, the woman's house must be closed. This is called blocking the door. The man knocked at the door outside and urged the bride to get on the sedan chair.

At this time, there will be a courtesy answer, and someone in the woman's family will come in with a red face. "When the door is blocked for a certain period of time, this person can enter the door.

After entering the door, the man not only sends special greetings, but also presents. These gifts vary greatly from time to time and from place to place, but they all have festive significance.

The way home from marriage. You must go the other way. It means "no turning back". If you meet temples, wells, shrines, graves, big stones and trees on the road, you should spread blankets to speed up the sedan chair and ward off evil spirits.

When the bride's sedan chair and ceremonial ceremony returned to the man's door, the man's door was closed as usual, saying that it could be used to evil the bride's temper. After the gate is opened, the sedan chair must pass through the brazier before it can be carried into the yard. When the relatives and the bride's brother are sent away, the sedan chair will enter the eighth yard to rest and hold a banquet.

In the old days, the bride had to sprinkle some grains, beans and grasses. After entering the door. The original intention is to ward off evil spirits-the three evil spirits (Qingyang God, Black-bone Chicken God and Qingniu God) are busy pecking, so they won't hurt the bride. Now the bride got off the sedan chair and took off the scraps of paper, which may be the reason.

When it's time to get off the sedan chair, carry it to the door of the hall. At this time, the groom bowed three times to the car door, which was opened by his wife who saw the bride off, and the bridesmaid helped the bride get off.

Then give the bride a small porcelain bottle containing two or four circles of yellow and white grains. The bride held the water bottle in her arms and left with the help of the bridesmaid and the wife who saw her off.

In addition, two people put red carpets on the front and back to keep the bride's feet from leaving the ground. At this time, the groom has stood in front of the case of heaven and earth, holding a bow and arrow and shooting three arrows at the bride to drive away evil spirits.

The archery posture is to shoot an arrow, take a step back, and then the bride crosses the saddle and walks into the basin. After these formalities are completed, the wedding will be held before the confession. As the saying goes, "worship heaven and earth". After entering the bridal chamber to worship heaven and earth, the bride was led into the bridal chamber.

After the bride and groom enter the bridal chamber, the ceremony is also a series. The first thing is to sit on the bill, also called sitting on the bed. The bride and groom are all sitting on the edge of the kang in the bridal chamber. The groom presses his left skirt on the bride's right skirt, which means that the man will overwhelm the woman.

Sprinkling happy fruit in the account is also called "paying off the account". Generally, the scattered items are dates, chestnuts and peanuts. , homophonic "early seeds" and "peanuts". The next program is to eat children's cakes. The children's cakes were brought by the farewell wife from her daughter's house.

After eating children's cakes, you should also eat longevity noodles, which are prepared by men, meaning that children and grandchildren will live forever. Then there is "Lian" wine, also called toast.

Use a red rope. Tie a cup at each end, and the bride and groom drink half a cup each. Then exchange cups and finish the wine in the cup. A toast ceremony was held in the bridal chamber, and then a banquet was held in the hall. As the saying goes, "reunion dinner". I let the bride and groom sit in their seats, and all the other guests sat with me, indicating that they have become a family since then.

The custom of "disturbing the bridal chamber" has been popular since the Han Dynasty. Besides amusing, there are other meanings, such as making the bridal chamber lively, driving away the feeling of being deserted and unhappy, and increasing the joyful atmosphere of the wedding. Therefore, some places are also called "greenhouses". In the past, men and women were introduced by many people who were not familiar with each other. Making a bridal chamber can help them get rid of formality.

In modern weddings in China, the custom of toasting and making love in the bridal chamber is basically retained, but they are all moved to weddings. For example, wedding games are the inheritance and evolution of the custom of making bridal chamber.

According to the traditional etiquette in China, men and women need "three media in six" to get married, which is the so-called "three books and six rituals". "Three Books" refers to the documents exchanged in the process of wedding engagement, that is, the letter of appointment, the letter of engagement, the letter of welcome from the man to the woman.

"Six rites" refers to the process from finding relatives and matchmaking to getting married and finishing marriage. Specifically: Li Na. The man asked someone to prepare a gift and propose to the woman as a matchmaker.

Name-asking: The man wrote down his name, official title and date of birth on the red Geng post, and the matchmaker sent it to the woman's home. If the girl's family is going to get married, write down the girl's name and ask someone to count it.

Najib: If the characters of the man and the woman are not contradictory, they initially agree to get married. Conscription: Also called gift. Similar to today's engagement.

Invitation: Choose an auspicious day to get married. In the old days, auspicious days were usually bimonthly and bimonthly. I don't like to choose March, June and November.

Wedding: On the wedding day, the man came to the woman's house with a marriage certificate to marry the bride. A few days before the wedding, the custom of towel wedding is to put the couple's new bed in the new house, cover it with bedding and sheets, then cover it with dragon and phoenix quilts, and put all kinds of happy fruits on it, such as peanuts, red dates, longan and lotus seeds. In other words, the couple will have a baby early.

In the old society, it was stipulated that the groom's brother of the same age could make trouble in the new house. The old people think that "this will not cause trouble for the new couple." The more noisy they are, the more noisy they will be. "They can ward off evil spirits for newcomers. After marriage, they were very lucky. Dowry dowry is the escort of the woman's family and a symbol of her family status and wealth.

The dowry will be delivered to the in-laws at the latest the day before the wedding. Of course, customs and pay attention to different places.

On the day when the bride is greeted with a red umbrella, the bride's sister or bridesmaid will help her out of the bride's house and stand in the open air. The bridesmaid or bridesmaid will put a red umbrella on the bride's head. Spread the branches and leaves and scatter the rice to the sky and the top of the umbrella.

Since the Southern Song Dynasty, sedan chairs have become the core part of traditional weddings. Four people carry it together.

Eight people bring two kinds. And dragon sedan chair, sedan chair.

The sedan chair is covered with a red curtain, embroidered with dragons and phoenixes, and the four corners are hung with silk ears. Flag gong umbrella fan: in the wedding procession, in front of the sedan chair.

Let the whole wedding ceremony become vivid and spectacular. Firecrackers: The wedding sedan chair should set off firecrackers all the way.

Guan Feng Sharpay: People who marry women are very picky about their wedding dresses, whether they are rich or poor. They are wearing red coats and embroidered feet.

7. Chinese wedding customs

What are the main customs of modern Chinese wedding? Nowadays, more and more people choose western-style weddings-elegant or Korean weddings-romantic.

When it comes to celebration, nothing can make everyone feel the festive atmosphere better than the loud suona sound, fiery red decorations and lanterns hung high at our Chinese wedding. So, what should be the process of Chinese wedding? Everyone will never forget the scene of Yong Qi riding a burly horse and a swallow sitting in a sedan chair in Princess Zhu Huan.

Let's rehearse some details of the Chinese wedding with us ~, and of course, we should adapt it slightly in combination with the modern plot ~ sedan chair departure: accompanied by gongs, drums, suona, lion dance, sedan chair begins to leave. Traditionally, the bride should be carried out by her brother and put in a sedan chair.

Modern people are mostly only children, and can only be done by cousins or groomsmen. Usually, they turn their backs to hug, so that men can relax. Ha ha.

At present, the distance of sedan chair is only a form. Unless the two families are particularly close, it will be very tiring to carry them from one end of Nanjing to the other. Time is also not allowed ~ but it is customary to give red envelopes to the sedan chair, otherwise it will deliberately shake the sedan chair and make the bride tired of the brazier and archery: in ancient ceremonies, the bride crossed the brazier in the sedan chair, but now it is usually the bride who crossed it directly with the help of the matchmaker.

Then, before getting off the sedan chair, the groom will draw a bow and shoot three red arrows at the sedan door to drive away the evil spirits that the bride may be contaminated along the way. Well, you can use darts, which means on the top of the sedan chair.

Pay attention to the bride's safety:) Pay homage to the bride and propose a toast: some people have to cross the saddle behind the brazier to show that the newlyweds are safe after marriage; Then, the groom picked up Sipa on the bride's head with a weight wrapped in red cloth. At this time, it is time for couples to pay a formal New Year call. The most important part after visiting the church is not to make a glass of wine, but to offer tea to the high halls on both sides. You should kneel down and sincerely offer tea to your parents.

The cup is best matched with a big red one. Heart to heart thanks to the media: in modern wedding ceremonies, many things that should be in the bridal chamber are moved out for display.

For example, tying the hair should be a couple cutting some hair in the bridal chamber and keeping it as a token of the relationship between husband and wife. Now this is a public performance. Later, the mothers of both sides lit dragon and phoenix candles, and the couple exchanged incense books and jewels as keepsakes, and then asked the matchmaker to give them hoofs.

Chinese weddings can't be short of help. There must be many "professionals" to support it.

Follow-up makeup may not be enough, because in addition to newcomers, there are bridesmaids, matchmakers, family members and so on. You have to wear makeup. As for the host, we should not only prepare the retro wedding speech in advance, but also preview the Chinese wedding process, singing and dancing.

It is best to invite another person who knows how to plan Chinese weddings and coordinate various roles. Find a reliable person to be the general director.

Because the coordination between the route of the sedan chair and the hotel always needs someone to do it. For a Chinese wedding, we should also pay attention to the wedding layout ~ flowers can be less, but props should be prepared.

The scene of "one worships heaven and earth, the other worships the high hall, and the husband and wife respect each other" must be familiar to most people. An essential element in a Chinese wedding is the crown robe, which is the most indispensable prop. The red dress is very cheerful, especially when the groom and groom wear embroidered robes and jade belts. Compared with the black suit in western weddings, there is another kind of wealth.

According to the ancient ceremony, the bride was sent to the bridal chamber after paying homage to the bride, and then she opened Xipa to know what the future partner would look like. That kind of mood, modern sedan chair people certainly can't understand.

Perhaps, only when you see the interesting appearance of the other party wearing ancient costumes will you shine at the moment. Friends, are you clear? Sit in the sedan chair and wait for the moment when your groom kicks the door; Waiting for the moment when the groom lifted Hippa with a scale ~ I remember when I was a child.

Perhaps because our hometown is a little backward, I have never seen a western-style wedding. Later, when I came to Chongqing, I really saw the legendary western-style wedding, which was very popular at that time. However, today's newcomers are slowly choosing Chinese wedding as their own wedding celebration, and the trend of retro is slowly expanding. Western-style weddings look noble, while Chinese weddings look more festive. This has to be discussed by everyone! Mamori wedding professional planning company! Have a professional Chinese and western planning team to create your own festival for you! I wish you a happy and romantic life! ! (This article belongs to reprint).

8. What are the etiquette of the bride and groom at the wedding?

The bride and groom are the masters of the wedding and the important objects of the wedding.

Therefore, we must have proper manners. Generally speaking, we should pay attention to the following points: the appearance of the wedding ceremony, the bride and groom should pay special attention to appearance, make up properly and do a good job in hairstyle. The groom usually wears a suit and tie, and the bride usually wears a wedding dress, and appropriately wears gold and silver ornaments such as necklaces and earrings, but not too much, so as not to appear tacky.

Welcome guests. The bride and groom should stand at the door holding flowers. They are not allowed to walk around. When the guests arrive, they should be warmly welcomed and thanked, introduced to their elders or other guests in time, and then offered their seats in turn according to their seniority.

When offering cigarettes and tea, offer them with both hands. For the elders or peers who smoke, offer two cigarettes and light them. Laugh and laugh, be sincere and humble when talking to your elders, and don't be outspoken. Speak warmly and politely with peers, and pay attention to humility; Be warm and friendly to the younger generation.

Don't laugh all the time, or be silent and unsmiling. Sit and walk. Don't sit on the sofa askew. Don't cross your legs. When standing and talking, keep your back straight, and don't shake or move around frequently. Don't walk slowly, it looks like a walk, but don't run around or trot. Pay attention to walking posture and rhythm.

Cooperate with each other. At the wedding, the bride and groom should go out in pairs and pay attention to etiquette. For example, they should introduce their elders or relatives and friends to each other. When walking together, the two sides should not be too far away, but they should not be too close; If guests make trouble, help each other solve it; When seated, let the bride sit first; When seeing off guests, you should say goodbye with them.