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What are the poems about etiquette?
Poetry about etiquette 1. Poetry about etiquette
"If you don't learn etiquette, you can't stand it." -The Analects of Confucius, Ji Shi, a gentleman is kind, and a courtesy is kind: a benevolent person loves others, and a courtesy person respects others. Those who love others will always love others, and those who respect others will always respect others. -Mencius, Li Lou, reciprocity. It is impolite to go instead of coming; It is impolite to come instead of going. -On "Book of Rites Quli" Etiquette is a mirror that reflects everyone's own image. Goethe: One of the most important tasks of affinity civilization is to make people obey the form in his pure material life. Make people become aesthetic people in the realm of beauty. -Schiller: Aesthetic education of letter politeness is the art of making choices in one's true thoughts. ——A· Stevens: Mrs de Steele makes polite people happy, and also makes those who are treated politely happy. -Montesquieu: On the spirit of law, politeness will not be lost. But you can get everything. -Marvo montague: Etiquette in the collection of letters is the smallest but most stable norm. -laroche Foucault: The book of moral proverbs is the flower of universal love. People who have no manners can't talk about universal love. Joubaire: A collection of famous sayings makes a person great, not because of wealth and family, but because of its preciousness. The second is misconduct and neglect; The only way to avoid these two situations is to abide by the following rules, that is, don't look down on yourself and others. -John Locke: A ramble on education.
2. Ancient etiquette poems
Civilized etiquette
1, static to cultivate one's morality, frugal to cultivate one's morality. -Zhuge Liang
2. People who respect others will always respect others; People who love others will always love others. -Mencius
3. The overlord takes two rivers alone, and hundreds of descendants descend. After the success of luxury, what is the double danger? -Wang Anshi
4. People are rude, things are rude, countries are rude and restless. -Xunzi
5, treat people like brothers; Evil spirits welcome people and harm soldiers. -Guan Zhong
There are brave people in the world. They are not surprised when they come, but they are not angry. -Su Shi
7. Looking back at the countries and families of the former sages has become the result of thrift and extravagance. -Li Shangyin
8, poor but not flattering, rich but not arrogant. -Zigong
9. If you don't learn manners, you can't stand it. -Confucius
10, strong is frugal, poor is not poor. -Xun Kuang
1 1, you won't be arrogant, arrogance will lead to rudeness, rudeness will lead people to leave, and people will rebel. -Zhuge Liang
12, extravagant and lazy people are poor, and thrifty people are rich. -Han Fei
13, the gentleman's trip, quiet to cultivate one's morality, frugal to cultivate one's morality, not indifferent to his ambition, not quiet and far-reaching. -Zhuge Liang
14, Tufu can be a city wall, and it is thick. -Li Bai
15, luxury leads to more desires. If a gentleman longs for more, he will read Mu Fugui, and he will waste his way and get into trouble soon. -Sima Guang
16, extravagant, messy and frugal, a fierce one is just around the corner. -Bai Juyi
17, learned in the article, with a gift. -Confucius
18, if you don't suffer from a position, you don't respect it, and you don't respect it; Not ashamed of Lu's disagreement, but ashamed of his lack of wisdom. -Zhang Heng
19, don't think about being prepared for danger in times of peace, and refrain from extravagance and thrift; Swargen seeks wood for luxury, and the source of the plug wants to flow long. Wei Zhi
20, don't do it with evil, don't do it with good. Only virtue and virtue can serve others. -Liu Bei
3. Etiquette poems
1, "Xunzi Guo Fu" Shang Dynasty: Rites are in the country, such as weighing, such as asking for ink in right and wrong.
Etiquette is like a balance used to weigh a country, a carpenter's black line is used to judge whether it is straight or not, and compasses and square rulers are used to measure squares and circles.
2, "Book of Rites Jing Jie" Shang Xunzi: Rites are in the right country: the balance is in the light, and the rope ink is straight.
Taking ceremony as the most important "Tao" in governing the country is actually governing the country with ceremony, just like a balance is used to weigh the weight.
3, "Xunzi Wang Ba" Shang Dynasty Xunzi: The reason why the ceremony is also for the country, for example: the balance is also in the light, and the rope ink is also straight.
Etiquette and law are used to govern the country just as scales are used to measure the weight of the country, just as scales are used to measure the weight.
4, "Xunzi Outline" Shang Dynasty Xunzi: Rites are in the right country, such as weight, such as Suomo in the right.
Taking ceremony as the most important "Tao" in governing the country is actually governing the country with ceremony, just like a balance is used to weigh the weight.
5. Xunzi in Shang Dynasty: Fu Li is also in China. Balance is about weight. Rope ink is to merit.
Basic principles that people must follow in their own affairs. If people lose their foothold, they will surely fall and sink.
Etiquette is established in terms of appearance, appearance, etiquette and manners in order to respect each other in social communication activities, and it is a recognized code of conduct as well as * * *. Etiquette is the general name of etiquette, courtesy, etiquette and ceremony.
References:
Sogou encyclopedia-civilized etiquette
4. Ancient poems about etiquette, and the discussion of etiquette and manners.
China is a world-famous country of etiquette, and "etiquette" is the outstanding spirit of China traditional culture. Therefore, the discussion of "ceremony" begins with the understanding of ancient etiquette in China.
The word "Li" consists of "Li" and "Qi". In ancient China, etiquette was often not only a ritual of offering sacrifices to ghosts and gods, but also a code of conduct for people.
(1) Li "Li" is very rich in China ancient books, covering almost all the contents of China traditional culture. Some people say that the traditional culture of China is etiquette culture.
This statement makes sense. Specifically, "Li" generally includes the following contents: 1. Ceremony is the foundation to bring peace and stability to the country. "Zuo Zhuan lived in seclusion for fifteen years" said: "Rites, the country, the country and the people will benefit the heirs."
"Zuo Zhuan Zhao Zhuan Gong Fifteen Years" says: "Li, Jing Ye." "Twenty-five years of Zuo Gong" says: "The gift of a husband, the classics of heaven, the meaning of the earth, and the trip of people are also.
The classics of heaven and earth, but the people are actually it. "Mandarin Today" says: "Rites are the discipline of the country, and the country cannot end without discipline."
"The Analects of Confucius Advanced" said: "Rites serve the country." "Li Ji mourns the public and asks Confucius from generation to generation" says: "People's actions are great.
There is no way to treat the gods of heaven and earth indecently, to distinguish between the position of monarch and minister, the relationship between men and women, the relationship between father and son, and the friendship of marriage. "Book of Rites, Rites of the Temple" said: "A husband should be intimate, suspicious, different and distinguish between right and wrong.
..... the Tao is righteous, not evil. The lesson is correct and vulgar, and the indecent assault is unprepared.
It is indecent to argue and argue. Your majesty, your superiors and subordinates, your father and son, and your brother are all indecent.
An official scholar is indecent. Ban Chao runs the army, and he gives it to the authorities to do the law. It's not good to be unseemly.
It is dishonest to worship temples, offer sacrifices and offer sacrifices to ghosts and gods. It is a gentleman to respect and give in. "
"Xunzi Outline" said: "Rites are to the kingdom of heaven, as scales are to the weight, as rope ink is to merit. An old friend is rude, everything is rude, and the country is rude and uneasy. "
"The Book of Rites" says: "The former king's rites include books and articles. Loyalty is the foundation of politeness.
Righteousness and reason, the text of ceremony is also. No foundation, no position, no writing.
Rites are also the right time, place and people, suitable for ghosts and gods, suitable for people's hearts, and everything is reasonable. "It can be seen that politeness plays a role in maintaining social order and is the basis of long-term stability of the country.
In ancient China, it was a very broad concept, including law, morality and ethics. 2. Li Tongli's "The Book of Rites Pushes Ni Yanju" goes: "Confucius said:' The ceremony is also reasonable.
Happy people are also frugal. A gentleman is unreasonable and keeps a straight face. "
"Shu" says: "Reason is reason, and those who speak courtesy make everything in reason." "The Book of Rites and Music" says: "Those who are polite are not reasonable."
"Book Dealer" also said: "Those who are polite are reasonable." Etiquette is reasonable, it has the meaning of reason and reason.
Song Yuan's "Children's Reunion" said: "This child is very rude and loves him like a child." Song Yuan said in "Jade Pot Spring": "This poor fellow is rude."
"Rude" here means "unreasonable". "Guang Yun" also said: "Rites, each in his place."
"Doing things right" means understanding things correctly. 3. Courtesy is respect and courtesy to people. "The Book of Rites and the Moon Order" said: "Encourage governors, hire celebrities, and be a corporal of courtesy."
The "courtesy" here is interpreted as "respect". "Lu Chunqiu, Shen Dalan, Xia Xian" says: "Therefore, the livestock of the sage master refused to love the real person."
There is also a "respect" solution. Song Yuan's Bamboo Leaf Boat said: "This scholar is not polite to me."
This scholar doesn't respect me. 4. Ceremony refers to the ceremony "Book of Rites" cloud: "Confucius said:' No words are answered, no rudeness is answered, and the people are not bullied. "
"Notes" said: "Courtesy and loyalty." "Shu" says: "Ceremony is money, so money shows affection. Without the gift of money, you can't meet each other. "
The Book of Rites Miscellanies says, "Deacons are impolite." The Notes said, "Li, here's a drink."
The "rites" in quotations are all gifts. The former said that when people meet, they should give gifts. "It is impolite not to meet".
The latter means that the gift given at the funeral is too heavy to accept. 5. Rites refer to ceremonies and ceremonies. "Rite" originated from sacrifice, which was originally a set of sacrificial ceremonies, and later extended to ceremonies and ceremonies held to show respect or show solemnity.
Five main ceremonies held by the imperial court at that time, namely Ji Li, fierce ceremony, military ceremony, and peace, were mentioned in Zhou Li Dazong Bo, which were collectively called "Five Rites", all referring to the etiquette and behavior norms with certain scale, specifications and procedures. As for the weddings, funerals, birthday gifts and banquets held by every household to entertain guests, there are also certain scales, specifications and procedures, which are established by convention, mainly manifested in external behavior norms and have always been called gifts.
Here, it is difficult to distinguish between ceremony and instrument, and ceremony is instrument. Strictly speaking, the above five aspects can't cover all the meanings of "ceremony" in ancient China.
Liu Yizhi said: "Therefore, the so-called' ceremony' in ancient China is all-encompassing, and it is not easy to explain its definition in one sentence." The French enlightenment scholar Montesquieu seems to have a more popular and profound expression of China's ancient "ceremony". He said, "China people's lives are completely guided by rituals" and "they are a mixture of religion, law, customs and etiquette".
These are all morals, and these are all morals. These four commandments are the so-called ethics.
China's rulers are successful because they strictly abide by this moral code. China people spend their whole youth learning this kind of ethics, and their whole lives practicing it.
Scholars use it to teach, officials use it to publicize, and all subtle behaviors in life are contained in these ethics, so when people try to make them strictly abide by it, China will be well governed. "Montesquieu observed China culture as a westerner and said that China people mixed religion, laws, customs and etiquette, which is correct.
Not only that, but also the system and education are mixed together. "Li" occupies an extremely important position in traditional culture, radiating to all aspects of national politics and people's life, with far-reaching influence. This is a major feature of China's traditional culture.
(2) The content of ancient "righteousness" is also very rich, which is often the same as "reason".
5. Etiquette poems
"Quli" says: "Don't be disrespectful, if you think about it, calm down." An min zai
You can't be long, you can't do whatever you want, you can't be complacent, and you are extremely happy.
Saints respect it, fear it and love it. Love knows its evil, hate its good. Product can be scattered, and can be moved. There is money, and there is trouble. Don't think about winning, don't think about scoring more points. Doubt is not qualitative, but straightforward.
Ruofu, sit like a walking corpse, stand like qi. Etiquette should be appropriate and customs should be followed. Therefore, husband and wife should be intimate, suspicious, different and distinguish between right and wrong. Courtesy, don't talk to others, don't hesitate to pay. Courtesy, not exceeding the festival, not insulting, is not good. Self-cultivation and self-cultivation are called good deeds. The quality of ceremony is also the quality of speech. Politeness emanates from people, not from people. Learn with courtesy, but don't learn with teaching.
Moral righteousness, see no evil, correct lesson, see no evil. It is indecent to argue and argue. Monarch, minister, father, son and brother are all indecent. An official scholar is indecent. Ban Chao runs the army, and he gives it to the authorities to do the law. It's not good to be unseemly. It is dishonest to sacrifice ghosts and gods in the shrine. This is a gentleman's respectful concession to show politeness. Parrots can talk and stay with birds; Orangutans can talk and stay with animals. People nowadays are very rude. Although they can talk, are they not as good as an animal's heart? Husband is rude to animals, so father and son get together. It is made by saints and teaches people for courtesy. Make people polite and know themselves from animals.
Too much respect, and secondly, reward. Courtesy is reciprocated. It is indecent not to come; It is also impolite to come and not go. Politeness is safe, rudeness is dangerous. Therefore, owners should learn. Those who are polite to their husbands feel inferior and respect others. Although the seller is negative, he should also have respect and a rich situation? If you are rich and know good gifts, you will not be arrogant; If you are poor and know good gifts, you will not be intimidated. If you don't learn manners, you can't stand it "
-The Analects of Confucius. Jishi "
The meaning of a gentleman is benevolence, and its meaning is ceremony: the benevolent loves others, and the courtesy respects others. Those who love others will always love others, and those who respect others will always respect others.
-Mencius: "Mencius Li Lou"
Courtesy is reciprocated. It is indecent not to come; It is also impolite to come and not go.
-The Book of Rites. On Quli
6. Poetry about etiquette, about 150 words.
Civilization is a flower, a flower with permanent fragrance.
We irrigate with sincerity and nurture with enthusiasm, so that the poems of etiquette will always be treasured in each other's hearts. Etiquette is a poem, elegant and clear.
We use understanding to melt and care to comfort, so that the poems of etiquette will always be treasured in each other's hearts. We are cross-century teenagers, and we should be the spokesmen of civilization in the new era.
Under the rain, we sow the seeds of civilization; In the sunshine, we dress up the spring in our hearts. Bring a smile to others, and others will give you infinite happiness.
Bring warmth to others, and others will give you a bright mood. Give your heart to others, and others will miss you deeply.
Give others humility, and others will respect you. Let's hide the spring thunder in the team drum and ring the war drum of the times.
Tell my motherland, tell my mother that I grew up with civility and etiquette. Let us plug in the wings of civilization, fly to the blue sky, fly to the future, and tell the sun and the moon that we are eagles that are about to spread their wings in the new century.
To be the messenger of civilization, let us pave the road of civilization with a smile; Teenagers who are etiquette, let's build a bridge of etiquette with our heart. Accompanied by civilization and etiquette, Chinese virtues shine.
Civilization and etiquette accompany me, and the flowers of civilization bloom everywhere.
7. Famous aphorisms about "politeness"
1, respect people, and people will always respect them; People who love others will always love others. -Meng Zier. Don't be arrogant, arrogance will lead to rudeness, rudeness will lead people to leave, and people will rebel. -Zhuge Liang 3. Politeness is the second sun for educated people. -Heraclitus 4. Politeness can often replace the noblest feelings. —— Merimee 5。 Politeness is like an air cushion, there is nothing in it, but it can wonderfully reduce bumps. Like a house without windows. -Uygur proverb 7. Politeness is safe, rudeness is dangerous. -"Book of Rites" 8. Writing should be learned and making appointments should be polite. -Confucius 9. The national ceremony is grand, the family ceremony is big, the body ceremony is self-cultivation, and the heart ceremony is peaceful. -green. Yanyuan 10. Mainly self-restraint. -beauty. Edison 1 1. Politeness is the first important habit that children and young people should pay special attention to. -British Locke 12. It is not difficult for well-meaning people to express their manners to others. -France. Rousseau 13. Politeness makes people have it. It also makes people who are treated with courtesy happy. -France. Mendes 14, politeness is comprehensive, but it costs nothing, but it is more valuable than anything else. -Spain. Cervantes 15, there are two kinds of peaceful violence, namely law and courtesy. -De Goethe 16. Politeness is the most important thing in life. It is more important than all knowledge. -herzen 17, people are rude, things are rude, the country is rude and restless. -Xun Qing 18, ceremony, the classics of heaven, the meaning of the earth, people's trip. -Zuo Qiuming 19, virtue is a gem. England. John. The power of a smile Carnegie, the American steel magnate, said, "A smile is a strange radio wave, which will make others unconsciously agree with you." At a grand banquet, a businessman who complained about Carnegie slammed Carnegie behind his back. When Carnegie stood in the crowd and listened to his speech, he didn't know it, which embarrassed the host of the party, but Carnegie stood quietly with a straight face. When his attacker found him, he felt embarrassed and wanted to get away from the crowd. Carnegie's face was still full of smiles, and he stepped forward to shake hands with him kindly, as if he had never heard him speak ill of himself. Later, this man became a good friend of Carnegie. When Shi was 40 years old, he made some achievements in his career, but he still studied tirelessly. One day, Shi Yang and Youzuo went to the teacher for advice. Seeing Cheng Yi asleep with his eyes closed, he stood at the door waiting respectfully. When Cheng Yi woke up, he saw Youzuo standing there covered in snow, busy greeting them into the house. At this time, the snow on the ground has been more than a foot deep. It is a great pleasure to have a heart-to-heart talk with friends in social occasions, but we should pay attention to some "taboos": the topic is too high and the song is too high; Pretending and exaggerating can easily be misunderstood as showing off; Low style, no benefit; Spelling should be avoided; Self-boasting, boring; Chattering and boring; It is better to forget the unpleasant things and seek pleasure and comfort; Bitterness makes people stay at a respectful distance from others; If you speak briefly, you will lose your friends. Psychologist Adriano, the power of smile, once gave a speech at a university in Central America. Those students were going to have a hard time with him, but when they saw the smile on his face, they had a good impression in their hearts. When he finished his speech, the audience applauded warmly. A student gave him a note that said, "Mr Adriano, your smile conquered us." Politeness Training School A new school, Politeness Training School, has been established in Japan. Many companies send their new employees, especially young female employees, to politeness training schools to learn how to use different honorifics for different people, how to accept famous movies and how to keep an elegant sitting posture. He also taught how to send guests away politely. The teacher taking these politeness classes is a 53-year-old retired stewardess of Japan Airlines. Chen Jing, a famous mathematician, respected teachers and loved schools in Chen Jingrun, and recently returned to Xiamen University to attend the 60th anniversary celebration. The first thing he said to the welcoming people was: "I am very happy to return to my alma mater. I often miss my teachers." Wang Yanan, a famous economist and the old president of Xiamen University, is known as "knowing the value of people". He once gave Chen Jingrun meticulous care and help. When Chen Jingrun returned to his alma mater, he first visited the old headmaster. On the third day of the celebration, Chen Jingrun appeared in the home of Professor Li Wenqing, the first teacher who entered the "Goldbach Thought". Chen Jingrun is very respectful and grateful. He also presented the latest math paper to Professor Li in the form of a table, and wrote the following words on the title page of the paper: "Thank you very much for your long-term guidance and training-your student Chen Jingrun.
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