What is role model education for children?

Chen Heqin, a modern educator, said, "Parents have to be careful in everything and make themselves worthy of doing things." No matter what parents do, whether consciously or unconsciously, they are role models for their children. Children are the best imitators. If parents don't pay attention to their own details and behave inappropriately, it will easily have a negative impact on children.

(2) If you want to be upright, you should be upright first

That is to say, what parents ask their children to do, they must do it first. Only a parent who keeps his word can cultivate a child who speaks honesty, and it is difficult for a sloppy parent to cultivate a child who likes cleanliness. No matter how you behave, do things, study and live, you should first ask yourself the same requirements, and then ask your children. Otherwise, let the children do this and that, but they will muddle along. How can the children be willing to listen to you?

(3) Example is more important than words

Many times, children prefer to see what their parents do rather than listen to what their parents say. Therefore, parents had better "talk" less and "do" more. What parents did is more important than what they said. For example, to educate children to be honest, it is much more useful for parents to be honest first than to say the truth a thousand times or ten thousand times. There is nothing more important than parents to be a noble person.

and what aspects should parents pay attention to when choosing a good role model for their children? How can we help children grasp the "degree" of communication and find a suitable role model?

(1) It is very important to know children in all directions

. Parents should be clear: What are the advantages of children? What are the shortcomings? What aspects need to be improved? What are you more interested in? For example, children need to be improved in cleanliness, so let them make friends with good hygiene habits as examples; Children like reading, so let them communicate with those partners who have the same interest in reading, and exchange their reading experience in the interaction, and so on.

it is very important to know each other's situation. If conditions permit, you can learn about each other's family background. The influence of family environment on a person is very important, and children's friends can be better understood through his family.

(2) Communicate more with children

In general, parents should not easily object to children's normal communication, but many parents always want their children to communicate more with "good children". However, the measure of children may be different from that of parents, but their opinions are also worth considering. What should parents do if children don't listen to their parents?

First of all, let children understand that their parents' starting point is for their own good.

Generally speaking, parents think their children's friends are bad simply because they have many shortcomings, and they are afraid that they will affect their children's study and life. Parents can fully explain their worries and stand on the premise of respecting their children. As long as they are sincere, children will consider their parents' opinions.

Secondly, you can meet the children's friends.

Maybe you don't like children's friends, but it's not good to forcibly stop them from socializing. You can invite your child to your home to get to know him at close range, and then you can give guidance to your child's behavior according to the specific situation.

(3) lay down some behavior principles for children

Children's ability to judge right and wrong is still limited, and parents can't always follow them, so it is necessary for parents to tell children what to do and what not to do when they are with friends. For example, when parents are not at home, you can invite friends to play at home, but don't just rummage through things at home, pay attention to the safety of electricity use, and so on.

(4) The power of encouraging children and their role models to make progress

is infinite. In a threesome, there must be a teacher. Due to the limitations of children, you are often better than her in this respect, and she is better than you in that respect. Everyone has their own advantages and is equal. In this case, children can set an example for each other, learn from others' strengths, overcome their own shortcomings, and influence others with their own strengths to help them make progress. Parents should not only encourage their children to make progress, but also remind them not to be influenced by the shortcomings or bad habits of others. Good habits have not been developed, and a lot of bad habits have formed, which deviates from the original intention.