Giving gifts to married friends is taboo.

Gifts are also learned, and a new generation of young people don't understand many things that are taboo. The following are the articles I collected for you. I hope I can help you!

1, you can't send clocks. The bell and the tail are homophonic, which is unlucky. The table is homophonic with the bitch.

2, can not send tools. It is easy to hurt people, and there is an idiom "make a clean break", which makes people feel uncomfortable when they get married.

3. You can't send umbrellas. Umbrella is homophonic with dispersion, and dispersion means dispersion. There is a saying that umbrellas are only used in rainy days, and giving umbrellas is to hope that people will spend rainy days often. It's rainy and cloudy, so umbrellas are also regarded as unlucky gifts.

4, can not send towels. Towels are generally used as a reward for undertaker and are very unpopular at weddings or other occasions.

5, can't send a mirror. First, it is easy to break, and if it is not broken, it will reveal the true face of people, indicating that people are ugly now, so it is taboo. Besides, mirrors are considered as unlucky gifts.

6, you can't send fans, fans and homophones, and it is only used in summer, which is rude.

Tips for giving gifts to married friends

1 Don't give gifts blindly when friends get married. They shouldn't give whatever they want, and they shouldn't cram for the last minute. Gifts must be meaningful, such as something memorable for them. When you put it in one place, you can think of it as a gift from you to congratulate them on their centennial reunion. If you can understand this, you can find the right gift to send.

When giving a friend a wedding present, you must seize the opportunity. You can't give it if it's convenient for you. Be sure to choose a memorable day, such a gift is a famous teacher. For example, you can't send them before they get married, and you can only send them when others get married, which shows that you are not sincere. Give it to them on the wedding day, don't be abrupt, or it will be counterproductive.

3 location must also be clear. If you are friends with both of them, give it to the woman first and then to the man. If you only know that woman, you should send them to her home. If you only know the man, you should send them to his home.

Taboos that newlyweds should pay attention to when they get married

First, avoid visiting

Getting married is a happy event. In the traditional marriage custom in China, it is unlucky to visit friends after marriage. It is not good for some newlyweds to thank their relatives and friends for their help after the wedding. In fact, the bride doesn't need to pay the price of relatives and friends on her honeymoon.

The taboo of visiting relatives and friends has been circulated since ancient times. People think that visiting relatives and friends after marriage will bring misfortune, and this ominous situation will take another month to eliminate. Therefore, to be on the safe side, the bride had better not visit relatives and friends within one month of marriage, especially those with old people.

Home, pay special attention.

Second, it is forbidden for the groom to sleep alone on the wedding bed.

After the wedding bed is properly decorated, it is waiting for the bride-to-be to move in. Looking at the soft and comfortable wedding bed, the grooms may want to lie on it and imagine the sweet days after marriage. But before marriage, the groom-to-be can't sleep alone on the wedding bed. Otherwise, sleeping in an empty bed is a big taboo. The so-called "sleepy"

Empty shop, death, death ",is considered a bad omen. This implies loneliness after marriage, which is very unlucky. If the groom really has no other place to rest, he can find an underage boy to sleep in a new bed.

Third, avoid sending pregnant women.

On the wedding day, relatives or friends will send the bride out of the house. But it is best not to choose pregnant relatives and friends. Because the ancients thought pregnant women symbolized lotus flowers. If pregnant women send the bride off, it will bring disaster to the couple. Moreover, the scene of seeing off relatives is generally chaotic.

A little carelessness may endanger the safety of pregnant women. Therefore, when sending the bride out, pregnant women had better avoid it.

Four, avoid staying at home within three days after marriage.

In the traditional marriage custom in China, the bride needs to be accompanied by the groom to return to her family after three days of marriage. This marriage custom is called "Huimen". However, after "returning to the door", it is generally not allowed to spend the night at the bride's family, and you must return to the man's house that day, because there were newlyweds in the old society.

The habit of not leaving the room for a month. If you spend the night at your parents' house, you think it will bring trouble to your parents and make them unlucky. If something unexpected happens and you can't go back in time, the husband and wife should sleep in separate rooms and try to resolve the ominous meaning.