I want to know the marriage rules of ancient girls. What is three aunts and six grandmothers?

According to the traditional etiquette in China, men and women need "three media in six" to get married, which is the so-called "three books and six rituals".

"Three Books" refers to the documents exchanged in the recruitment process, namely:

★ "Letter of Appointment"-exchanged at the time of engagement;

★ "Gift Book"-hand it in when giving a gift;

★ "Welcome Book"-the man gives it to the woman when he marries the bride.

"Six rites" refers to the process from finding relatives and matchmaking to getting married and finishing marriage. Specifically:

★ Li Na: The man's family asked someone to prepare a gift to propose marriage to the woman's family.

★ Name-asking: The man writes down his name, ranking and date of birth on the Honggeng post, and the matchmaker sends it to the woman's home. If the girl is going to get married, write the girl's name in eight characters and ask someone to count it;

★ Najib: If the personalities of men and women do not collide, the marriage is initially agreed;

★ sign: also known as gift. Similar to today's engagement;

★ Invitation: Wedding on an auspicious day. In the old days, auspicious days were usually bimonthly and bimonthly. I don't like to choose March, June and November.

★ Wedding Ceremony: On the wedding day, the man went to the woman's house to hold a wedding ceremony to marry the bride.

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