How should you treat your daughter-in-law as a mother-in-law?

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been a problem that plagues families. Although it is said that now in this era people's thinking is not as feudal as before, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is no longer as bad as in the past, but the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can not reach a good state, so that mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in the end how to get along to make the relationship become less awkward?

In fact, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not so good or bad, but depends on the attitude of both sides to each other, only two people to each other's attitude is very good when their relationship is likely to be not so bad.

While I'm not married now, but I've heard of those mothers-in-law and the relationship between them, and I know that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is very delicate, and there are times when a little bit of carelessness can lead to a stalemate, so you have to be extra careful during the process of getting along with each other.

I personally feel that the mother-in-law in the treatment of their daughters-in-law, want not to conflict, the best way is to less control people . As long as it is not doing particularly excessive cases, you can turn a blind eye to the past, do not always hold people not loose. Imagine a person has been accusing you of wrong, you will not be particularly modest to accept it!

Anyways, I think this point is particularly important, and you are an elder, with the younger generation between itself is a generation gap, a lot of things you and their views are not the same, in this case do not go to say anything, do not come up with the set of your scolding their own children to scold their daughters-in-law, we must know that they are not blood relations with you, your Your child can stand it but your daughter-in-law can't.

And I think the mother-in-law should treat her daughter-in-law as if she were her own child. Of course, I know that it is impossible for a mother-in-law to be that close to her daughter-in-law, but at least she can treat her with sincerity! As long as the daughter-in-law can feel your heart for her, I believe she will also be sincere to you, after all, will be heart to heart!