What ideas of the older generation can't you accept?

I found that in the concept of my parents' generation, "other people's views and their own face" were always put first.

For example, when it comes to marriage, we all hope to find someone to get along with, someone to get along with. If we don't meet, even at the age of 30, we won't force ourselves to marry someone we don't like very much. So, for us, if we really get married, it must be the relationship between two people.

But when you get to your parents, as long as you are still alive at the so-called "marriageable age", they will urge you to get married all day. In their eyes, it seems that no feelings or opinions are very important. The most important thing is to realize the wish of "holding grandchildren" as soon as possible!

Something similar is probably "You are 28 years old and still not married? Everyone else laughs at our family! " "Look at others, it's not much different from you. The children are all studying." "You don't have a boyfriend for the New Year, and my face is lost to you!"

Sometimes, I wonder, who are they talking about "others"? Why is that other person so powerful that I don't get married, and he sometimes makes fun of me. He doesn't have to work or live?

Is it because of my parents' face that I brought my boyfriend home during the Spring Festival? Don't we all earn face by ourselves? Did someone else "give" it back? Pay attention to respect the eyes of others in everything you do.

I don't know if my parents are tired of this life, but I am tired of listening to it anyway. Born as a human being, the most important thing is to live a high and comfortable life, not to live in the eyes of others.