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Give a rose, where does the lingering fragrance come from?

"Give someone a rose, and there is a lingering fragrance in your hand" is a proverb, which means that a very ordinary and trivial thing, even if it is as trivial as giving someone a rose, will bring warmth to both the giver and the recipient. In life, we should all be like this.

related stories

1. The story of turning on the light

There was a blind man living in a building. Every night he goes for a walk in the garden downstairs. Strangely, whether going upstairs or downstairs, although he can only grope along the wall, he must press the light in the corridor. One day, a neighbor couldn't help asking curiously, "Why do you turn on the light when your eyes can't see?" .

the blind man replied, "turning on the light can bring convenience to others going upstairs and downstairs, and it will also bring convenience to me." The neighbor asked doubtfully, "What convenience can you bring by turning on the light?" The blind man replied, "After turning on the light, people who go upstairs and downstairs will see better, so they won't knock me down. Isn't that convenient for me?" The neighbor suddenly realized this.

2. Wang Xizhi's inscription

In order to help an old woman selling fans sell all the fans, Wang Xizhi personally wrote an inscription on the fans and helped the old woman sell the fans. Wang Xizhi also left a good name for this.

3. The story of rescue

There was once a woman whose husband had gone to sea for a long time and had not returned for several years. Because of missing, she watches on the rocks by the sea every day. One day, the sky was overcast and the woman came to the seaside as usual. There was a strong wind at sea, and she saw a sailboat struggling in the rough waves from a distance, and finally began to sink slowly.

the woman had no time to think it over, so she quickly ran back to the village and called the villagers to help the shipwreck. When the people on the boat landed safely, the woman could not help but feel sad and happy. Among the people who were rescued, there was her husband who was traveling for many years and returned today.

Extended information:

"Give a rose, and your hand will have a lingering fragrance." This sentence tells us that while helping others, it doesn't mean that we have lost anything. We have gained something, and we have gained happiness. Therefore, when we help others, we must not only worry about the gains and losses of our own interests, but also consider how much influence your help will bring to others.

Helping others is the traditional virtue of our Chinese nation. As Chinese descendants, we have the obligation to carry it forward! When you lend a helping hand to others, others will ignite the flame of hope in their hearts. Some things may be trivial to ourselves, but they may be crucial to others.