As the old saying goes, there are three kinds of unfilial. Which three are unfilial?

Obey parents too much and let them do whatever they want, and eventually they will make mistakes. Poor old people, not being an official (being an official adoptive parent), unfilial; If you don't get married and have children, you will never worship your ancestors, which is unfilial. "These will lead to future generations. It is the most unfilial to belong to the greatest family. This understanding is not necessarily wrong. If Mencius is still alive, he might as well make a phone call and ask, and he can draw a conclusion. We usually say that there are no descendants, and the word "no descendants" in many literary works also has no descendants. Not being an official (being an official and being an adoptive father) is unfilial; Unmarried, childless, not worshipping ancestors, unfilial. " Later, Zhu of the Northern Song Dynasty and the Southern Song Dynasty all commented, but later generations mostly talked about it.

When the elders in the family are urging marriage, they always like to say that "there are three unfilial things, and it is great not to have children." Is that really the case? There are three so-called unfilial, which three are unfilial? The content is that the child reported his father's drug abuse and praised more than 6 million. The most common comments are "this is a filial child", "this is for the good of my father" and "this is to save my father". It is unfilial for him to be deprived of food and clothing for three meals, to be ill and have no money to see a doctor, or to have no fame. He can't take the scholar exam to take a part-time job and make a name for himself. For example, the famous Zheng Boke Duan Yanyu, in fact, a large part of the responsibility lies in Zheng Zhuanggong's deliberate layout, which makes his brother's ambition constantly expand. If Zheng Zhuanggong can be honest with his mother and brother, the result will be different.

Shun married his wife without informing his parents, as if his parents didn't exist. This is a hopeless explanation. A gentleman should inform his parents in advance. Flee to the seaside together, live a carefree life, and forget the identity of the son of heaven in order to enjoy family happiness. Due to the propaganda of Confucianism, Shun's legendary deeds have had a far-reaching impact on China's cultural traditions. Trapped in injustice, unfilial; Poor old people, not an official, unfilial; If you don't get married and have children, you will never worship your ancestors, which is unfilial. "Of the three, nothing is great.