Does the man give the bride price to the woman after the wedding in Ningdu, Ganzhou, Jiangxi? Is the local custom really like this?

The custom in Ningdu is 1. Men and women fall in love through introduction or understanding (AA system, with more boys than A). 2. The woman goes to the man's house to "inspect the family (inspect the family)" (the man only provides meals). 3. The man goes to the woman's house to formally "propose marriage" (he brings his own food to the woman's house to eat, and sends a meeting gift to the woman's next of kin, and the elder relatives of the woman will add a red envelope when the man comes home. The ceremony is put in place first, such as banquet, dowry, gift package, etc. The bride price obtained by the woman at the time of engagement and marriage belongs to her parents. When getting married, it is often the woman's family who pays to marry a woman or doubles or doubles the money for the couple as a dowry. There are also tens of thousands of bride price in southern towns (such as Lai Village), all of which belong to the woman's parents. Even the bride price of the man and the woman is the quilt responsible for the wedding bed. The expenses of the wedding banquet shall be borne by the man, and the snacks such as melon seeds before the banquet shall be borne by the woman. Parents of both sexes should accept gifts from all guests, and personal gifts of the bride (such as gifts from classmates and friends) are usually given to the bride by parents.

It is only a promise between husband and wife to write off the pre-marital debts after marriage.

Since men and women love each other, marriage cannot be trapped by money. Because of personal economic differences, it is easier for both sides to have no money, and some girls privately lend money to boys to pay part of the bride price. The general principle is that it is better to have original capital for new houses, and it is also good to start from scratch, just don't let them get into debt just after they are established.