There are still many old ideas that are hard to get rid of. Do you think it's weird?

There are still many old ideas that are hard to get rid of. Now 2 1 century is changing with each passing day, the times are developing faster and faster, and people's ideas and attitudes towards things have also changed. Therefore, some concepts of the older generation are relatively feudal and backward, but some old concepts still exist.

One: The older generation has a serious preference for boys over girls, and there is still a preference for boys in some areas. Patronizing men over women is an unequal concept between men and women in society, which attaches importance to men's rights and interests, while positioning women as subordinates of men and restricting women's development of personal talents and personal freedom. There are still some places that have been giving birth to boys until they are born, regardless of the family's financial ability. Too many children can't afford it, so they give away their baby girls and abandon them. Although the concept of son preference has improved, it will not all improve, and it may be decades before it changes.

Two: The phenomenon of serious marriage dispute is a traditional marriage custom in China, but in recent years there have been many bizarre forms of marriage dispute. We can always see all kinds of marriages in the news, except bridesmaids and grooms. In some places, there are parents-in-law, which leads to lawsuits and even death. Marriage has gradually become stale and even immoral, affecting social atmosphere. Some people use marriage to rob bridesmaids and get back at the groom. They should be happy, but they are vulgarized. There is also this bad habit in star weddings, which shows how serious vulgar marriage is. Marriage is a happy thing, so a civilized marriage is unhappy.

Three: Young and old have different views on marriage and love. Marriage and watching movies have sounded the alarm for us to choose a spouse and get married. Love in the modern sense, characterized by two of a kind and free love, conflicts with the traditional marriage view of parents' orders and matchmakers' words. Nowadays, more and more young people choose to get married first, but parents always want their children to get married first. As soon as they leave the society, they will start to arrange various objects, or urge marriage, and even take marriage and having children as a task to urge their children to hand in their homework as soon as possible. College students' views and understanding of love and marriage have changed a lot, but they conflict with their parents' old ideas.

The old concept is narrow and backward, which hinders the development and progress of the new society. It is most important to renew and break old ideas and keep up with the development of the times.