Why do some brothers and sisters in life stay at a distance like enemies?

First, there must be a conflict of interest between them.

Originally, brothers and sisters should care about each other and are the warmest people in the family. However, due to their improper handling of certain interests, mutual suspicion and intransigence, they finally stopped talking like enemies.

In such a family, there is always a kind of brothers and sisters who try their best to take advantage of some more or less, leading to psychological imbalance and undue family estrangement.

Whether a family is happy and harmonious is not as simple as a love story. It needs more tolerance, understanding, support and mutual encouragement between brothers and sisters. A happy family has the warmth of brothers and sisters, and the storm!

Second, there are many contradictions between spouses.

Some brothers and sisters have a good relationship, but because of the huge contradiction between spouses, and they have not taken a proper position and participated in it, they have formed a state of not being enemies over time.

Some involve not only spouses, but also children, and disputes between children lead to adults' intervention, which eventually leads to family division and reluctance to communicate!

In fact, among all the relatives of brothers and sisters, everything should be done without demanding, and come when it comes; Don't care about anything, just pass it; Don't frown when you are in trouble, smile when you should; Don't insist on character, it will be yesterday; Life will be simple and family will be peaceful!

Third, they treat their parents differently.

Brothers and sisters in some families have great differences in supporting and treating their parents for various reasons. They can't communicate well, they can't empathize with each other, they can't understand each other, which leads to deepening contradictions and finally they don't communicate with each other like enemies.

It can be said with certainty that some parents' words and deeds towards their children for various reasons are also important reasons for conflicts between children.

All troubles and contradictions stem from one's own mood. As long as everyone puts the overall situation of the family first, adheres to the principle that blood is thicker than water, respects and understands each other, and is tolerant of others, brothers and sisters will be the closest people except their parents!

To sum up: in life, due to some interest disputes or some sudden grievances, there are mostly major differences in the treatment of the elderly. Some brothers and sisters can't handle family conflicts correctly, and self-centered extreme individualism breaks out, which eventually leads to the two being enemies and not communicating with each other.