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Every family in China has its own family motto, family rules or family style, my family is naturally no exception, when I was a child, my parents asked us to meet the elders to take the initiative to say hello; mutual respect; my father once told our brothers to bargain is to lose "back door", is not their own things never want to take possession of the greed of the heart; their own things to do; homework done before recreation time; the same day things to do the same day can not procrastinate; diligence and thrift, the bowl of rice must be finished, and so on. We should do our own things; we should have recreation time only after we finish our homework; we should do things on the same day without delay; we should be thrifty and frugal, and we should finish the food in the bowl, and so on. All talented families must have a good family style, and a bad family style will inevitably lead to family misfortunes. Meng's mother to ensure the purity of the family's style of three choices of their neighbors, and break the loom, to create a good environment for the growth of the child, so that idle, unambitious Mencius studied hard, and became a famous great thinker in the history of our country. Ranked in the three dukes of Zeng Guofan strict requirements for their children, not allowed to be superior, and advocate thrift and family, so that their children have become useful talents of the country.

Good family rules are as indispensable to family members as soil, sunshine and rain. So, how can we establish good family rules? Of course, the benevolent see benevolence, the wise see wisdom, I think the construction of good family rules is the most important thing is to have a harmonious family relationship, good family rules is the important foundation of the family

Team, equality, tolerance, and harmonious family relations. Secondly, it is the adherence to the family rules, although most of the family rules do not have written records and requirements, but the traditional virtues of teaching by example and oral education is very critical, my parents' words and deeds, is the root of my family style to carry forward.

Family rules are not thought out, they are created by the lives of each member of the family and their own behavior. If the head of the family's speech and demeanor is out of line, even the carefully researched family rules will not help. Only legitimate family rules and regulations, in order to create a good working, living and growing environment for all members of the family, good family rules and regulations will be the family and society forever wealth.