As the saying goes, "children avoid their mothers and women avoid their fathers." Why?

There are many manners in China. We need to know all the manners so that we can live in society. There is a saying in China that "the eldest son avoids his mother, and the eldest daughter does not avoid his father". Why? Explain to you:

First of all, let me introduce my son's great avoidance of his mother:

In China's common saying, it is a word that everyone often hears. Why should my son avoid his mother when he is older? In fact, the biggest reason is that mothers love their sons very much. If a son can't grow up without his mother, it means that his son has been completely spoiled. It is difficult for such a child to achieve anything in the future, because he has been living under his mother's wing. In fact, the same is true of the animal kingdom. When the animal grows up, mother will drive it away. Therefore, this is the inheritance of an educational method of China people.

Second, the reasons why female students don't avoid their fathers are as follows:

Why don't girls have to hide from their fathers when they grow up? This is because in ancient China, unmarried women never left home. China has a saying: If you can't get out of the front door, you can't get out of the second door. That is, unmarried girls. Therefore, when a girl grows up, she must be controlled by her parents. Marriage is more about her parents' life and the words of the matchmaker. In this way, when a daughter grows up, she will depend on her parents to get married, so she won't hide from her father!

Thirdly, this proverb illustrates the feudal tradition in ancient China.

Children hide from their mothers and women hide from their fathers. This is an ancient China thought of three obedience and four virtues. Today, this social proverb has a new explanation, but no matter how this explanation changes, it actually has discrimination against women. With the development of society, I believe that the status of women will be higher and higher in the future, and this sentence will continue to change.