Family education for girls is particularly important.

Girls are usually timid, cowardly, intelligent and conscious. Therefore, family education for girls is particularly important:

First of all, we can't ignore the cultivation of girls' practical ability. Girls are usually timid, cowardly, intelligent and conscious. Parents are generally satisfied with them. In order to prevent them from being frightened and influenced, their parents usually do it themselves and don't let them disassemble and assemble it, because these are usually boys' patents. Over time, many girls don't like to start work and won't start work. As we all know, the development of the human brain is closely related to the movement of the hand. Parents' actions have planted the seeds of learning difficulties for girls to enter a higher level, because their brains have not been fully developed in childhood, so from this perspective, we must not miss every opportunity to let go, and even strive to create opportunities for them to start working.

Secondly, we should attach importance to cultivating girls' self-reliance, self-improvement and frustration-resistance. When something is a little difficult or annoying, parents should inspire or encourage her to try. This kind of attempt will make her have fun, and she will understand that everything depends on herself, and she will not bow to difficulties.

Third, let girls learn to cooperate. Because girls are quiet and obedient, there is only school? Home? In this small world, there is little contact with others except parents, which has formed many girls' self-centered, selfish and unsociable qualities, so parents should provide them with more opportunities to play and communicate with their peers. At the same time, let her know that when she is with others, she should pay attention to issues such as speaking attitude, politeness and tolerance.

I think, if the girl's parents can raise their daughters? Girl character? At the same time, we should also pay attention to cultivating some? Boy character? Then the future world will really be dominated by men and women. Prefer boys to girls? It will really disappear!

Family education experts remind

Experts said that there are some misunderstandings in family education and parents need to be reminded.

1. When children grow up, what they learn from teachers and parents is diligence and kindness, and what they learn is self-improvement, studious love for life; Therefore, even if children's academic performance is not good, parents don't have to worry too much, because? Only? Insufficient? De? Can make up for it

The roles of husband and wife are reversed. It is difficult for a mother to play the image of a loving mother in traditional culture. For example, if the child makes a mistake, what the mother has to do is to remind him. This is not good. Mom doesn't like this. Will mom be angry if you do this again? And then ignore it, mom doesn't have a child like you? If you don't change it, it will become a serious warning. If you do this again, will mom tell dad? The next step is to threaten. In any case, never reach out and hit the child. As a father, a man should remember that a wife's complaint against her children will never be a false accusation. Therefore, if the wife complains about the child, the man must strictly educate the child. Sometimes even when the father comes up to beat the child, the mother should not only pretend not to see it, but also educate the child. I said no before, why didn't you listen? Listen to your mother in the future. Look how hard your father works. You're still mad at him. Bring a glass of water to your father and tell him not to be angry. ? In family education, mothers should always play the role of secretary and political commissar to reconcile family conflicts. If the mother is too strict and the father is too weak, it will affect the child's character to be too feminine.

3. The misunderstanding of parent-child generational. Parents don't need to explain to their children why you make every rule before they are 12 years old. A child should know what is obedient, what is a rule and what is a rule from an early age.

4. The tutor's rewards and punishments are unfavorable. Ignoring punishment can easily make children fall in the same place for the second and third time. Too much denial and accusation will not do. You know, the smaller the voice of blaming the child, the easier it is for the child to listen carefully.

Parents with different identities should educate their children with the same caliber, otherwise it is easy for children to take advantage of the loopholes.

6. Parents think that children's poor academic performance is not serious, which is wrong. In fact, 10% to 30% of children have learning disabilities, and parents should carefully analyze the reasons.

7. The misunderstanding of the training course. It is said that children have a heavy academic burden, but in fact, parents have a heavy economic burden. There is no need to work so hard to promote children to junior high school. Parents say that no amount of economic expenditure is worth it for children to be admitted to the ideal junior high school! This situation is mainly caused by the increasingly fierce competition in choosing schools. What if? School choice fever? With fierce competition, it is difficult for parents to reduce the burden of children's education expenses!