Rural banquet strange phenomenon: hot feast turned cold, wine on the table no one drink, how? Look at it to know

The invitation to the banquet is considered a traditional custom in our country, as long as there is a happy event to think of the first thing is to hold a banquet, the family child went to college to set up a promotion banquet, the child to get married to set up a wedding banquet, someone to set up a funeral banquet, a small child full moon to drink a full moon wine, in short, all kinds of happy events will be held a banquet, and this tradition in the countryside is to be played to its fullest extent, the rural people and hospitable, and often in the one or two days before the holding of banquets The whole village will come to the house to help, of course, not for the mouth to eat, for which is the atmosphere of celebration and bustle.

But in the past two years, back to the village to participate in the banquet found that the two biggest features of the previous rural banquet - lively and drinking, now almost no, many people are the day of the banquet near the opening of the time to come in a hurry, during the meal the previous kind of rowing and drinking the lively atmosphere is gone, although the hosts are still on the table set the On the red wine, white wine, beer all kinds of wine, but most of them are placed there, open the bottle of wine table and not much, what is the reason for the rural banquet appear hot feast into a cold seat, on the table no one drink this strange phenomenon?

The author on this issue with the village of several respected elderly people talked about, they generally believe that there are several reasons:

1, the village is less and less people, many people attending the banquet are living in the field

Previously, rural banquets are lively because of the village of people, from children to young people, and then to the middle-aged and the elderly, each of them to help each other in their respective roles, but now! Most of the people who still live in the countryside are over 60 years old, and most of the young people have bought houses in the city and live there.

Close to the village can also be in the opening of the day at noon to come back to eat a meal, and far away from not only time-consuming back and forth to bear the high cost of the road in order to go back to the village to eat a meal, and is not worth it, so many people choose to directly transfer the share of money to the host, they do not participate in the, so that the following time and cost savings, but also to help the master to save a person's meal, is a two-for-one solution.

And this is also a reason for less drinking, in the village are old people, the amount of alcohol is also with the increase in age in the decline, the young people are mostly driving back to the village, and in the afternoon usually have to rush back to the city, and now on the drunk driving investigation and punishment is very strict, so less people drink.

2, the living standard of farmers has improved

That before the material is not very developed era, we held a banquet is to find an excuse to reunion, we all eat a little better to improve the food, or men find an excuse to drink some wine.

Now with the increase in farmers' income, the daily meal is also very good, not to say that all the time there is fish, at least all the time there is meat, and like to drink wine can also be every day to drink wine.

Such a feast is not so attractive to everyone, usually eat with the feast is almost the same, the feast will not have to participate in the necessary, usually can drink naturally not bad feast that one meal.

3, too many forms of banquets, too many

Have a happy event, organize a banquet, everyone together to make a fuss, dip happy is a good thing.

But now a lot of local banquets changed flavor, turned into a number of people "enrichment" tool to participate in the banquet in most cases with the money, but in recent years, the share of money within the volume of serious, the amount of money is more and more to give the higher, before a person of 10 yuan, 20 yuan to express their feelings can be, but now there is no 600, 800 yuan! Simply can not get their hands on, once or twice okay, more often than not, we can hardly afford this expenditure, simply do not participate in the feast.

4, things are getting more and more, we are too busy

Previously, farmers are only responsible for the work in the farm on the line, although the farm work is relatively heavy, but the free time is still there, but now because of the pressure of life is relatively large, the farmers will also want to find a place to play short-term jobs to earn money to subsidize the family during the agricultural season.

The ones who have settled down in the city are the ones who have to work every day, and they may not even have the time to rest, so they are not willing to participate in such time-consuming things as attending banquets.

And because they are busy, drinking is a time-consuming process, so they just don't do it.

Additionally, now the host is also relatively busy in order to save time, and compared to the rural areas appear more classy, many times are the people directly pulled to the hotel inside to eat a meal, everyone is also rushed to the meal to participate in the feast, eat and wipe their mouths to go home, there is no help to cook and clean up these jobs.

While it is easy, but there is no previous kind of lively feeling, the whole banquet also seems to be a lot of cold.