What are the customs of marriage in Feixi people?

Two days before the wedding, the two sides can't meet. The next morning, the boy will get up early and go to the bride's house to meet his relatives (bring his daughter-in-law home before noon to wish them eternal life and a brighter life). The man's bride should get married in pairs. It seems that 8- 12 people are needed. I don't know the exact number. Those who pick up relatives should bring wine and noodles, as well as two Jin of pork, two chickens, one male and one female. After the woman's family accepts it, the family will raise it. I don't know how much I can eat in the future. The person who picks up the bride should wait outside the door first, and the man will lock the door until the woman's people are satisfied before going in. Then the groom will go through some torture before entering the new house to pick up the bride. The groom should put on the bride's shoes first, and then give a red envelope to the bridesmaid who combs her hair. Insert a paragraph to comb the bride's hair: when combing the bride's hair, the bride's feet should be placed on the red sheets and not allowed to touch the ground. The bride also lights a red candle and carries her brother out. At this time, her mother will shed two tears at the door, and the bride will throw a pair of chopsticks at home to show that she has married and become someone else's daughter-in-law.

At the man's house, the bride will not get off lightly. The groom will ask for three invitations and four invitations, and the bridesmaid agrees, and the bride can get off. At this time, we should pay attention to which hand holds the child's bucket, which hand holds it, and which hand can ask the groom for a red envelope, no matter how much, but this person has to agree to give it. Depending on the situation, this bucket has to pay a different price.