Why is it a tradition to aspire to success?

This is related to the history of our country, our culture and our inheritance. Looking forward to your son becoming a dragon and your daughter becoming a phoenix, this has a historical origin.

Meng Mu's "Three Major Movements" is a good example. If Meng Mu hadn't done this, Mencius might have been a street child or a vendor who worked hard for a few silver coins.

Noble families in past dynasties also placed high hopes on their children. First, they want to upgrade their families or remain unbeaten. Second, they want to expand their sphere of influence. Third, they can match or enter the threshold of other families and suit each other.

Parents of ordinary families, because of the environment, class, personal ability or cognitive ability, are unwilling to live a hard life, work hard, let their children go back to the old road, and let their children have a better future. They would rather be a little bit bitter and tired, support their children to study, pin their hopes on their children, and hope that their children can get ahead and change their own or their family's destiny.

Especially now, the standard to measure a person or a family is not judged by ability, level, accomplishment, education and quality, but more by who has more wealth, who can get more resources and who can speak boldly and confidently on the basis of wealth. The weak at the bottom are also eager to change their destiny

At least hard-working parents are not afraid of hard work and actively strive for a level of progress. As long as the method is proper, even if they pin their hopes on their children, it is understandable.