My boyfriend's mother secretly opposed our being together because of my poor family. What should I do?

This is what you should do, not what others should do. Ask others what to say. Some people like material conditions, some people like good or bad personality, some people like power, some people like each other's hobbies, some people like handsome and beautiful, and some people like hard work and housekeeping. I think there is a line that doesn't make sense in an embarrassed mother, and it is the biggest irrationality to be reasonable emotionally. Men and women talk about family ties, and the core is congenial. What parents say is to reason with you. You must remember that it can't be reasonable. We can talk about feelings. You should fully express your feelings for each other. There's nothing I can do. Let's break up. Only girls agree. After all, you are responsible for your own happiness. If you really love each other, love is giving and giving. You should dedicate your happiness to each other's happiness. This situation is also a paradox.

If he doesn't want to pay for you, it means that you don't want to be with each other because of love. In this way, the requirements of the other parents are correct. I think as a woman, we must first see this person clearly. If he has a good personality and no bad hobbies and hobbies, he deserves to be entrusted to a generation, and he really likes it. He is willing to endure hardships with him and create a new life of his own. Then you have to stick to your choice. Just like buying stocks, if you look at a blue chip, you must buy and hold it.

Parents, on the other hand, try to communicate and let them understand themselves. Every parent wants their children to be happy and will not be so unreasonable. After marriage, your life will get better and better, and you will be filial to your parents. They will be very happy. We should work harder, keep forging ahead, strengthen ourselves and do a good job in the economy, and the man's parents will also see it. But it's mainly your choice. For a person, happiness may be material, spiritual or just a feeling. I wish you can find your own happiness.