The traditional culture of our country is basically the role of "strict father and mother", why Chinese parents do not love to praise their children?

Because Chinese people are more introverted, they often pay more attention to their own actions, but they will not directly say love to the child, not willing to express their approval of the child, and also hope that the child can continue to improve.

Chinese education is generally strict father and mother, it is believed that the child needs to be cared for and carefully taken care of, and this job is usually left to the mother, and the child sometimes naughty also need the father to go to the harsh education, so there is a strict father and mother this concept.

First, the traditional thinking, deep influence

Most of the eighties for the child's excellent performance is not willing to praise, they are afraid of their own children because of the praise and pride, they hope that their own children can maintain a modest attitude, continue to move forward.

And some parents feel that praising their children and encouraging them is feeling particularly embarrassed, so they are reluctant to encourage their children.

And in our tradition, many Chinese are introverted, not good at expressing their love for their children, but putting it into action.

Secondly, a child's education needs a strict father and mother

In fact, in the process of educating a child, it is necessary to have a mother and father's companionship and a mother's care, so that the child can experience love and warmth.

The strict attitude of the father may also make the child in the more naughty time to be able to restrain, the child's growth process, it is necessary to have a certain amount of respect for the parents.

The educational environment of a strict father and a kind mother can also enable the child to develop in a better direction and goal, which is more favorable to the child's future.

With the development of society, many young people's education is more advanced, they are now starting to consider the child's feelings, rather than just focusing on their own feelings and what they think is good for the child, and the concept of strict father and mother's education has changed a little bit, you can see that the children are now living a particularly happy life, do not seem to have any worries, and the mentality are also The children's lives are very happy now, and they don't seem to have any worries, and their minds are also very optimistic.