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Why is it still socially unacceptable to have a "man at home and a woman at work"?

The concept of "man on the outside, woman on the inside" has been passed down in China for thousands of years, and the new concept is a bit of a departure for many people. In the traditional Chinese concept of marriage and family, the idea of "man on the outside, woman on the inside" has been y rooted and perpetuated for thousands of years, and has been taken for granted in the eyes of many people. In our country's traditional culture, the idea of "men at home, women at home" seems to be more in line with the public's perception, ideas and decisions.

In fact, the "main internal and external" should not be divided by gender, the most reasonable is a different character of people, suitable for different roles . If a man's character tends to be feminine, and like housekeeping, then he is suitable for the main internal, in the home is the main thing is the "position"; women are the same, if the woman's character tends to be masculine, and like to be a leader in the management, then she is suitable for the main external, outside the venture is the "position". Of course, this inside and outside, does not mean inside and outside the home, but also refers to the personality of the introverted and extroverted, the behavior of the strong and weak and so on.

As long as it is in line with each family's situation, there are some advantages to having a "man inside and a woman outside". Nowadays, many families have been asking outsiders to educate their children, which is a misunderstanding. In fact, the parents are the best teacher of the child, especially the father of the child's education has an irreplaceable role, they will educate the child brave, independent, strong and other inner character, compared to the mother is mostly only concerned about the child's living, physical health and other material details.

The man of the house is not necessarily the traditional sense of the nest, there is the pursuit of the man in which position can do well. Men in society to fight for a long time, often feel very tired, but often can not find a suitable release channel, can not cry, can not find someone to vent, so the man's body is prone to sub-health and other physiological problems. Therefore, men properly, phased home life for a period of time, whether for the family, children, or for their own physical and mental health, are favorable.