Can the traditional concept of parenting still be adhered to?

Due to the influence of feudal traditional concepts, our ancestors believed in the concept of parenting, so that children would be regarded as private property by their parents, and a beating and scolding of children would become a family matter, and others could not intervene. Even if someone sometimes accuses and persuades them, parents will confidently say that it is for the good of their children. Because of this, in the eyes of many parents in China, severity has become synonymous with beating and cursing.

To some extent, beating and scolding children will indeed restrain their wrong words and deeds and have an immediate effect. However, this does not mean that children will realize their mistakes after this and sincerely correct them. Children often just succumb to their parents' scolding and are forced to correct. This correction only solves the superficial phenomenon, but does not really solve the problem. When one day scolding numbs children, it loses its restrictive function, and these problems will be exposed again.

When one day, you won't believe your eyes, your child who obviously can't fight will fight with other children, even because of trivial matters. You won't believe that a cheerful child has become timid! Don't dare to socialize and do risky things, which limits the pace that should belong to your age! This is the reaction of beating and scolding children. ? Can we see it? Be a good boy? Children are not necessarily really good, and parents are strict with their children in the hope that they will get better. In their eyes, the reason why children don't correct is because they are not cruel enough. It will even get worse and worse, causing irreparable tragedy. Therefore, before strictly demanding children, we must first find out what kind of strictness is really strict. Don't beat and scold children without restraint.

The healthy growth of children can not be separated from the nourishment of parents, so parents should abandon unsuccessful feudal ideas and pay more patience, love and attention to their children.