What are the common problems of Chinese parents in education?

Chinese parents in education in general there are three problems: First, too high expectations of the child, the greater the disappointment; Chinese people since ancient times advocate education, "all kinds of things, but only reading high," looking for the son, looking for the daughter to become a phoenix. Many parents unrealistic expectations, gave the child a huge pressure.

Picture: Children in interest classes

Secondly, they are in a hurry to get what they want, and they are in a hurry to get what they want for their children. Many parents want their children to become successful as soon as possible, and enroll their children in a lot of extracurricular tutoring classes, all kinds of interest classes, with no regard for the child's ability to bear, depriving the child of the joys of childhood.

Match: not able to correctly view the child's performance

Thirdly, the child's performance is result-oriented, not able to correctly view the child's performance. Many parents attach too much importance to their children's results, good results will be happy, bad results will scold, completely ignoring the child's efforts process.

Picture: Other people's children

Fourth, excessively belittling their own children, like to take other people's children to do their own comparisons, good are other people's children. I don't know that excessive disparagement of their own children will make the child lose self-confidence, the child's growth process needs to be recognized by parents, so that the heart will be healthier.