Why has the old saying "it's the father's fault to raise but not teach" changed now?

Fu Huayu: mutual respect and love, not afraid of difficulties.

Old Huang in the village, who is over forty years old, treats his son as a darling and laughs all day long, deepening the wrinkles on his forehead. He often lets his son straddle his shoulders and make him scratch his head and pull his hair. Sometimes he grinned with pain and didn't get angry. And everyone praised his son for scratching his face when he grew up.

My son is a little older and often makes trouble without reason. Take this and take that. Lao Huang has his own interests, trying to meet all his requirements of eating, drinking and having fun, and he can't wait to pick a star and smile at the moon. At this time, my son was a little unhappy, so he lay on the ground crying and rolling, and even smashed valuables at home, which often made his neighbors fidget. Lao Huang always said with a smile that his son is too young to be sensible and will grow up well, and so on.

Fu Huayu: mutual respect and love, not afraid of difficulties.

Slowly, I managed to coax my son to school. I send him to pick him up every day. Lao Huang carries him back to back and rarely lets him walk by himself. Every time I send my son to the classroom, Lao Huang will wander around the campus for a long time, looking at his son outside the window. My son often looks for Lao Huang through the glass window, hoping that Lao Huang will buy him candy or a cake, and he has no intention of studying at all. If the teacher is strict, Lao Huang's son will cry and make a scene and threaten Lao Huang to hit the teacher. The teacher had no choice but to find Lao Huang to cooperate with education. Lao Huang always said that his son was too young to be sensible and perfunctory. After a long time, the teacher couldn't help it, so she had to let nature take its course.

Later, when Lao Huang's son was thirteen or fourteen years old, he dropped out of primary school without graduating. He asks Lao Huang for some money every day and follows young people of seventeen or eighteen around.

Fu Huayu: mutual respect and love, not afraid of difficulties.

One day, Lao Huang's son asked him for money again. At this time, the old Huanglian coins were gone, and he was overwhelmed by his son and scolded his son. But my son felt wronged and made a scene at home. Lao Huang hurried forward to stop his son from making a scene, but was torn to pieces by his son's palm. At this time, Lao Huang realized that it was time to discipline his son. Lao Huang conveniently took a broom and slapped his son on the ass twice. His son is usually spoiled, and his resistance is fierce. Facing Lao Huang, he grabbed the ceramic teapot on the table and threw it at Lao Huang. Suddenly, the pot broke, the head was broken, and the blood was like a note. Lao Huang was so angry that he beat his chest and feet: I only spanked him for fear of hurting his bones and muscles, but he laid hands on me where I was dying. This is what happened to the beloved!

Later, Lao Huang could not satisfy his son at all, and he could not manage his son at all. He didn't know that his son had broken the law and was locked in a high-walled compound, and he was to be punished by the government.

At this point, Lao Huang regretted it. He finally understood the truth that "it is the father's fault to raise and not teach".

Fu Huayu: mutual respect and love, not afraid of difficulties.