Requirements for male and female students to interact

One should interact moderately. There are differences between male and female classmates not only in physiology, psychology, physical appearance and tone, but also in ethics, social norms, customs and other aspects. After recognizing such differences between men and women, appropriate methods and correct principles should be used for interaction. In the interaction should follow three principles: First, the principle of openness, that is, in the interaction should be upright, generous, all righteous, do not hold distractions; Second, the collective principle, that is, to a number of people to interact, try to avoid contact alone; Third, the principle of routine, that is, the distance between the two sides, gesture, expression should be natural, in line with the routine, do not pretend and coy attitude, words and deeds should pay attention to the proportion, do not say to make others

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The second is to adhere to the noble moral character. Male and female students in the process of interaction, should pay attention to distinguish between men and women have different boundaries. First of all, from a personal point of view, to consciously cultivate their noble sentiments, improve their cultural cultivation, focus on learning and work, from beginning to end to self-esteem, self-love, self-improvement, to avoid the influence of vulgar and corrupt consciousness. Secondly, to be open-minded, open and honest, must not be due to emotional impulses and disregard for the differences between men and women, speech and behavior should be elegant and dignified, to avoid profanity, foul language, do not catch the wind, do not create rumors.

Three to mutual respect and understanding. Male and female students interact, to be polite, respect each other, treat people with sincerity, willing to share their problems. Neither self-esteem, overbearing, but also not false, flattering, always maintain a healthy mental state.

Two, the skills of interaction

One is sincere. Honesty and trustworthiness is a person's most basic moral standards. No matter what people interact with, this is the first condition. As long as it is sincere, mutual respect, get along together will become more natural, more conducive to the exchange of ideas.

The second is politeness after all, boys and girls are physically very different, so there should be special requirements and norms in the interaction. There is a certain distance in space, in the language must not touch the privacy of the opposite sex at will

. On occasions where there are female students, male students should pay attention to behave properly and not vulgar, and not speak words that make women embarrassed.

Thirdly, it is sensible. Adolescent students are full of passion and emotional instability, which may cause irrational situations, so there should be a degree of problem, with healthy motives, friendly attitude and dignified behavior with the opposite sex classmates, so as to not only promote their own comprehensive and healthy development, but also to win the respect and friendship of the opposite sex.

Three, recently found that some students in my school in the male and female interactions in some abnormal phenomena, in order to enable students to have a better learning environment so that students in the interactions to better grasp the proportion, according to the "Protection of Minors Act" and "Code of Conduct for Secondary School Students", "Code of Conduct for Secondary School Students", to formulate the following male-female interactions of the "eight advocate, eight do not! The principle of interaction is "advocated".

(a) Objects of interaction: Normal interaction between male and female students is advocated, and cross-class and cross-year students are not advocated, not to mention cross-school interaction.

(2) the scope of interaction: advocate the collective interaction of male and female students, do not advocate the single too close interaction between male and female students, opposed to male and female students "out of pairs".

(3) The occasion of interaction: advocate normal interaction between male and female students in the school, do not advocate male and female students to interact outside the school, especially in the entertainment venues.

(4) the content of the interaction: advocate students to talk about learning, work and other healthy content, do not advocate students to talk about food, talk about play and so on.

(5) the form of interaction: advocate students to interact with the spirit of light material, do not advocate classmates to interact with gifts.

(F) Demeanor: advocate civilized interaction between boys and girls, behavior and speech generous and decent, do not advocate male and female students interacting with hands and feet, physical contact, loss of propriety.

(7) Interaction Guidance: It is advocated that boys and girls should take the initiative to listen to the guidance of elders in their interactions, and it is not advocated that they should interact behind their elders' backs, especially their guardians.

(viii) Interaction reality: advocate male and female students to interact in the real environment, do not advocate male and female students to interact on the Internet.