It is not easy to get married in the countryside. Why do boys feel embarrassed?

Friends living in the countryside must be familiar with adoption, because most people have heard of it. This is the woman's statement, and the man's statement is "inserting the door backwards", that is to say, for various reasons, the man generally can't marry the daughter-in-law at home, while the woman's home is because there are no boys at home. Therefore, a woman's parents want her daughter to stay with them. If someone wants to marry her, you must live with her parents and support the elderly. It's called knocking down the door and recruiting a son-in-law

In the past, men were very disgusted with the incident of inserting doors backwards because there were many inconveniences in the past. Many people who cherish their reputation feel that this is a great shame. In fact, this is completely unnecessary. Being single is even more disgraceful than being upside down. In addition, people also discriminated against men who entered the door upside down.

Great changes have taken place now. People don't really care whose house they live in. However, the traditional ideas rooted in people's minds are not so easy to eliminate. Some boys are still disgusted, and some people have no affection for these people who break into houses.

In the past, some boys felt ashamed, because when they got married, the woman's family drove to pick up the man, which violated the normal marriage of the daughter-in-law. So many boys felt embarrassed and asked if they could drive to pick him up, marry themselves and let themselves go. In this case, the husband-in-law may not agree, because what the husband-in-law wants is this ceremony, which shows that their daughter "married" the man to her house.

It's not over yet. Before a man and a woman's family leave, he will write a written document in front of the man's relatives. So-and-so is willing to live in this woman's house and take care of the old man until he dies. Then there are some complicated rules. There is a guarantor in the man's house and a guarantor in the woman's house. After signing your name and pressing your handprint, this written document should be made in triplicate, one for the man, one for the woman and one for the matchmaker.