If you have a choice in life, do you prefer to be bitter before sweet, or sweet before bitter?

First of all, let me make my point. If I have a choice in life, I'd rather be bitter first and then sweet.

Confucius said, "If a man has no long-term worries, he must have near worries." .

Mencius also said: "If God wants to be a great man, he must first suffer his mind, work his bones and muscles, starve his body and skin, and empty his body."

In fact, all these are telling us that we should know how to be bitter first and then sweet. You have to bear hardships before you can have a smooth sailing. After all, there are still few people who have a smooth journey, just as someone said, "Bitterness can only last for a while, but not for a lifetime."

Take myself as an example. I'm not exaggerating to say that as a college student, taking things around me as an example, many college students are failing now. For them, it is a sweet thing to play games and brush Tik Tok, but they neglect their studies, which leads to failing the course at the end of the semester and continuing to retake or make-up the exam in the second semester. When they resumed classes, I was studying or doing something I was interested in, but he suffered in his studies and even had too many reasons to repeat.

Secondly, as far as my own life is concerned, I believe that most students think that learning is a very painful thing, but we still go on, and even take the postgraduate entrance examination and study for a doctorate. Why? I believe everyone can get a satisfactory job, have a happy family and live a sweet life in the future. Doesn't this also mean that sweetening first is a better choice?

In fact, we all know that there are many such examples, but what we lack is self-discipline. We can't control ourselves, and we can't restrain ourselves. Now there are also parents in society who seriously spoil their children, causing many problems.

Finally, I want to say that we should carry forward the excellent traditional virtue culture and maintain the good habit of being diligent and thrifty and struggling hard, because "life is fair, and suffering will be experienced sooner or later, only a matter of time." I hope we can have a broad vision, plan our lives well, make life choices without regrets and have a perfect life! ! !