How do so-called boyfriends and girlfriends position themselves?

How to position the relationship between men and women is a difficult problem: further love becomes love, and taking a step back is insincere. On this basis, some people assert that there is no real friendship between men and women.

Actually, it is not. In real life, there are some women around every man, and there are some men around every woman. They are not necessarily in love or false friends, but mostly become close friends. Why? There are two reasons: first, the initial motivation. The acquaintance between men and women is not all about love, but more about the relationship between work and life, from meeting to acquaintance, from knowing each other to becoming bosom friends. The second is sober reason. The difference between humans and animals is that they are rational. When dealing with the relationship between men and women, most people first consider morality, ethics, responsibility and legal system, and can consciously put the relationship in an appropriate position, so as to be affectionate, humble and restrained. (Allen)

In fact, the diversity of today's society also doomed the diversity of men's and women's relations. Some men and women are suitable for forming a family, while others are only suitable for being pure friends. It is not difficult to find that men and women in real life enjoy and be appreciated in addition to conquering and being conquered.

Mutual appreciation is a gentle realm, and it is an act of keeping a distance of 5 meters. If you can enter this realm, of course you can keep friendship forever.

Anyone who doesn't want to have an affair and family stability is threatened will grasp a degree in the communication with the opposite sex to avoid falling into the emotional swamp.