When you are alive, you can't stick to the routine.

Wang Yangming appreciates Zhouyi very much. He said: "Yi" means change, changing anytime and anywhere, and flexibility is the real person with wisdom. In life, don't be bound by some traditions and conventions, keep pace with the times and change at any time. As long as it is what conscience thinks is appropriate, do it boldly and bravely break the routine.

It's easier said than done to break the rules. Recently, I experienced a practical exercise.

My daughter is getting married soon. As a mother, I am happy and want to give my daughter a car as a dowry.

The local rule is to drive a dowry car on the wedding day.

They both work in Zhengzhou, and there is no wedding room for the time being, and their work units are far away, so the traffic is very inconvenient. Because I care about the children, I will consider buying a car in advance for them to use, so it is convenient to look at the house and do things. However, in view of the price of buying a car, and this is the car I married my child, I didn't communicate with my daughter's boyfriend. Some things happened during this period, which made me feel unhappy. Especially after the car has just been bought back and my boyfriend has left, I am even more upset and unhappy.

We live in this society, and always consciously or unconsciously look for a reference to act. When I found that I was caught in this strange circle, my heart suddenly felt relieved.

children's happiness is the most important thing, and so is their inner happiness. Although those unhappiness are not in line with the routine, when I decide to buy a car, it is in line with my conscience. What accords with conscience is appropriate, that is, routine. Because the routine is not outside, it is in my heart.

in this world, you really can't stick to the routine.