Inheriting fine family style: Why should we inherit family style from a cultural perspective?

During the Spring Festival, a series of reports on "Family Style" was launched. With the peaceful and joyful atmosphere of traditional festivals, it is undoubtedly the best time for the whole family to get together. The meaning of family style is all-encompassing, which seems to be on my lips, but it is hard to say clearly, but what it shows is clearly visible. The ancients said, cultivate one's morality, rule the country and level the world. The so-called "family management" can also be called "family management". The central link of "family management" is family education. Family education is to cultivate a good family style, and family style is the basis for laying a person's character.

Every family has its own unique family style, but Chinese civilization has a long history. Influenced by Confucian culture for thousands of years, Confucianism has become our traditional culture. The value of Confucianism exists in the hearts of the people and ordinary people. China people's ethical concepts are still deeply influenced by traditional Confucian ethics today, especially the family concept is very strong. Therefore, family style is also a family cultural foundation.

It can be seen that family style embodies a Confucian spirit in a certain sense and naturally has a commonality. Of course, most family styles are recorded in the form of words, such as family instructions and family rules. As the carrier of family tradition, every word and name in the family rules is full of vicissitudes of time, the precipitation of family history and touching stories. According to Chongqing Evening News, recently, 20 16 students showed their family style in an experimental playground in Jiulongpo District, Chongqing. The reporter found that traditional virtues such as filial piety, honesty, kindness and frugality are still highly respected by most families. "Filial piety, honesty, kindness and frugality" is not only the essence of traditional virtues, but also the internal pursuit and belief of every family and even the whole Chinese nation. Of course, a good family style needs not only the words and deeds of parents, but also the publicity of schools and society. More importantly, it needs to encourage children to persevere. Only by perseverance can we subtly influence children and turn family style into the norm and "character" of children's life and work. Furthermore, as parents and teachers, in the process of influencing their children with family style, they are also shaping their minds imperceptibly. It can be seen that as long as we all pursue these traditional virtues, everyone will benefit.

Of course, while inheriting the essence of traditional family style, we should also keep pace with the times and avoid sticking to the old ways and standing still. Frankly speaking, family style refers to the traditional morality of traditional families, some of which may not be suitable for modern families. For example, in the past, the family style of traditional families emphasized the hierarchy of honor and inferiority, requiring the younger generation of families to unconditionally obey their elders. These ideas run counter to the equality and democracy advocated by modern society. Therefore, in the new era, in order to establish a harmonious, stable and harmonious family, and then form a healthy, sunny and democratic social atmosphere, family style should also keep pace with the times. It should have new rules, establish a new family atmosphere and let it settle down.