China's traditional custom, why do girls who have been married for three days have to "answer the door"?

In China, many traditional marriage customs have been handed down to this day. For example, everyone is familiar with it? Want a bride price? Back to the door? Wait a minute. But if a traditional Chinese wedding is held, the customs and etiquette will be more complicated. Like what? Press the car? Is that the bride's family found a little boy and the bride to sit in the car, and only the groom passed on the boy's weight? Testing? The bride can get off; Like what? Wedding grandma? That is, the groom's family finds an elderly man to greet the bride with the groom to express their welcome and respect for the woman's family.

Of course, China has a vast territory and rich resources, and traditional weddings in different regions are different, with their own characteristics and customs. Today, let's talk about why women in China want to get married in three days. Back to the door? All right. I think women come back for three reasons.

The first point is that a woman returns to her family with another identity. She used to be her parents' little cotton-padded jacket, but now she is someone else's wife. Marry a girl, splash water? After all, it is my parents' years of teaching and nurturing. Since I am married to someone else's house, it is natural to find a suitable day to go back to my parents' house, which not only expresses my gratitude to my parents, but also expresses my concern for the family I grew up in.

The second point is to talk to parents about the wedding situation and reassure them. Although some online jokes are exaggerated just to make people laugh, there are similar real situations in real life, such as men getting married before marriage, and then getting married? Prototype exposure? . These parents' worries are not unnecessary, nor do they distrust the man. Which parent doesn't want her daughter to marry a good family and live a happy life, so it is necessary? Back to the door? Tell your parents about the situation after marriage, so that parents can rest assured.

The last point is to reintroduce the man to his parents. He used to be an object, but now he is a husband and a member of the family. In the traditional customs of some areas, Huimen? Sometimes I need to visit my relatives with my husband and get their approval.