Marriage customs in Dezhou and Weihai

In Texas, engagement is made by the man as a betrothal gift, and then some preparations are made, such as gifts for the house, and then an auspicious day is chosen for the banquet. Generally, only the closest family members, such as aunts, uncles and uncles, are invited. Generally, people's husbands are not invited to be husbands' wives and wives' wives, so Weihai doesn't know.