What wonderful things have you encountered in obstetrics and gynecology?

I am a man. I only go to obstetrics and gynecology to accompany my wife when she gives birth, but in just a few days, I saw two wonderful things, which almost ruined my three views.

My wife came to the bed next to a sister in her early twenties, because she was lying in bed due to the expected date of delivery, ready to give birth at any time. Her husband looks like a similar young man. It stands to reason that what expectant mothers should do at this time is to relax and have a good rest. After all, giving birth to a child is a very hard thing, but the young couple actually set up a small computer desk on the hospital bed and played online games with a notebook! Fortunately, the two of them are a little public-minded, afraid of affecting other people in a room, wearing headphones, only occasionally popping out a few dirty words, and nothing else can be said.

In the middle of the night, they were really sleepy. Just shut down and have a rest, the little girl has a stomachache. It's not bad that the boy called the nurse at once. Early in the morning, the little girl pushed back to the ward and gave birth to a baby girl. The boys were very happy, asked the girls what they wanted to eat, and then ran out and bought a bunch of things that opened my eyes: AD calcium milk, spicy strips, potato chips, and dozens of kebabs! According to our custom, these things must not enter the mouth of a woman who has just given birth! The old people advised the young man to take this thing away quickly and get something light and nutritious for his wife. The little girl still doesn't want to eat mutton skewers, but she can't persuade him. The boy had to leave the kebab, pack up other things and run out to buy food. This time, he brought back a bowl of clear soup wonton, and the little girl managed to eat it.

Everyone asked the young man how to have a baby. No adults came to wait on him. You two know nothing. If you eat in such a mess, both adults and children will have problems. Two small mouths are silent, and there seems to be a hiding place. It's hard to ask. Everyone just keeps teaching them how to prepare a nutritious diet and how to take care of the baby. Everyone is worried about them. No one has seen their parents or friends here until they leave the hospital.

Another thing is that a middle-aged couple will have a third child. Their first two children are daughters. During the labor period, the 5-year-old daughter kept changing methods at the bedside to amuse her mother, dancing, singing and reciting ancient poems, which was very clever. But I could see from my father's eyes that I didn't care much about my daughter, so I whispered in my wife's ear that this eldest brother might be patriarchal again.

Sure enough, after giving birth, it was a daughter. This middle-aged elder brother has been moping since his child came back. His wife seems reluctant to let him make milk powder. On the third day, the nurse examined the baby and said that jaundice was a little high, so pay attention. This eldest brother didn't know what to think, so he ran out with his three-day-old child in his arms and said that he would give the child some sunshine to reduce jaundice! I didn't even take out the quilt that wrapped the child.

It's December of the lunar calendar, and even if it's sunny outside, the temperature will be three to five degrees. How can a newborn baby stand this? After going out for two hours, the baby's face changed directly and he had diarrhea all the time. The attending doctor came in to ask about the situation and was furious: "Did you hurt someone?"

The doctor quickly asked the nurse to send the baby to the intensive care unit. This eldest brother has always opposed it, saying that the hospital wants to cheat him, saying that their treatment of jaundice is to bask in the sun. What can go wrong? After shouting for a long time, his wife didn't say a word, lying in the hospital bed and wiping her tears. It didn't stop until the attending doctor threatened him to call the police and warned him that if the child's life was in danger, he would bear legal responsibility sooner or later.

These are two things I saw in the ward the week I gave birth with my wife. I always feel that the maternity ward is a condensed social kaleidoscope, and some things reflect wonder and ignorance.

Once I felt unwell, the doctor prescribed a color Doppler ultrasound of the uterus and appendix. When you entered the color ultrasound room, the doctor asked you if you had ever held back your urine, and the answer was yes. As soon as you check, the doctor says it's not 1/2, so you go out to drink water and continue to hold your urine.

An hour later, I couldn't help it. I squeezed two people in line and told the doctor that I couldn't hold on any longer. The doctor just began to question whether it can be cured so soon? After a check-up, I was curious again: how can I hold back so much urine in an hour? It's not long before the exam. The doctor said, "Go and put in half urine and come back." At that time, I thought I heard wrong, so I just lay there motionless. The doctor went on to say, "Go to the toilet and put half a urine in it and come back for a check-up." Suddenly my mind is a little confused: what should I do? This is the first time I have encountered such a situation! When people hold their urine to the limit, the toilet is heaven, and now they can't completely relax!

Holding back half of my urine, I went back to the B-ultrasound room. The two people I squeezed out have already started checking. I waited by the curtain. When the first person went, the doctor asked, "Is that half?" The answer isno. When the second person went, the doctor asked, "Is that the other half?" ? I quickly poked my head out and said, "I'm here. They are more anxious than I am now. They check first. I have put down half of it, and I can bear it for a while. "

The most wonderful thing to say is that I want to say one thing, high-energy early warning:

You can get pregnant if the hymen is not broken! ! !

You can get pregnant if the hymen is not broken! ! !

My good friend's wife is a nurse. She met a beautiful little sister during her internship. She is pregnant and needs an abortion. Before the operation, she needs to check the routine of leucorrhea. Pose, when she held the diffuser in her hand, Miss Jie suddenly shouted-

"Wait a minute, my hymen doesn't seem to be broken yet!"

She looks puzzled. Fortunately, she was well informed before. She heard of a similar case and then called the teacher.

While taking the specimen, the teacher kept saying, Oh, you are really troublesome. ...

Children definitely don't want it, and the hymen can't be saved. How to deal with this situation?

Later, she met a very witty doctor in Lilac Garden. He said, go back to the same room first, and then do the operation!

In fact, there are not a few such examples. In short, although the fertility of human beings is generally declining, we should not underestimate the motility of sperm too much.

In addition, take a look at science and wear TT all the time to play a role in contraception!

The second story is also a wonderful patient. Say it in the first person as a friend. )

A little girl, about 20 years old. Just pregnant. She came to the clinic and asked me when the baby was conceived.

The reason is this:

Little girl, got married about 1 month ago. Then on the wedding day, the ex-boyfriend came to the hotel. There was a wedding reception downstairs, and the ex-boyfriend upstairs asked to break up. As a result, little girl, I actually agreed! Like the masses, I, a well-informed blogger, was shattered by the earthquake. )

The next month, the little girl was pregnant. I panicked. I don't know if the child belongs to my ex-boyfriend or my current husband. Run to the hospital to consult a doctor.

In fact, if the interval is more than 1 week and you are not the same sexual partner, the doctor can also help you calculate the pregnancy time. But this, all day long, is not the same sexual partner, and the doctor really can't help you.

Legally, the only way is paternity test during pregnancy. But this, it needs some formalities. Little girl, she doesn't want her husband to know what happened, but she is worried that she is not pregnant with her husband.

The formal way is definitely to let your husband know and sign, and the regular hospital will give you a paternity test during pregnancy. Secretly, the law is not allowed.

After listening to my story, the little girl is going to confess to her husband.

However, as a result, the little girl's husband actually forgave her (the blogger is also very wronged, maybe it is true love) and took legal channels. I recommend her to go to Shanghai Zhongshan Hospital for paternity test in the second trimester (specific hospitals are needed, not all hospitals in Shanghai can do it).

The result of subsequent development is unknown.

I just want to say that girls have long snacks, not to mention that this kind of breakup is immoral, but at least protect themselves. Fortunately, the little girl's husband is rational, and irrational accidents are all bloody cases.

"If you do more injustice, you will hang yourself."

I once met a mother-in-law, a son and a wife. Daughter-in-law is giving birth in the delivery room, and son is playing games outside. In the middle of labor, the fetal heart rate is not good, and it has been declining, and the child may lack oxygen. The doctor suggested an emergency caesarean section. After the pregnant woman agrees, go to her family to sign it. At this time, the son and mother-in-law refused to sign, and scolded the daughter-in-law at the door of the delivery room, saying that even a child could not be born and was still alive. ! Wait, these words really don't deserve to be human. Anyway, I didn't sign it, which later caused the atmosphere of other family members and doctors at the delivery room and kept cursing. Later, I reluctantly signed it. Later, they didn't go to the door of the operating room and went straight back to the ward to sleep until they said they were going to have a son. This is the most wonderful thing I have ever encountered in obstetrics and gynecology.

Because menstruation has been irregular, I have not run to the hospital less, and I have encountered many wonderful things. Say it one by one.

First, when I first got married, my menstruation was irregular. My husband took me to a tertiary hospital and hung up the specialist clinic. There are many people waiting for treatment. At that time, in front of me was a young girl, tall and handsome. I should be accompanied by my husband and mother. She looked sad and kept frowning. It was her turn, and she came out crying in less than a minute. Her husband hurried forward and asked, "What's the matter? What's wrong? " The girl cried even harder: "The doctor said I had a stomachache, not a gynecological disease. He also scolded me, such a big man, I can't tell a stomachache from dysmenorrhea. I can't even say it. You insisted that I come. I can't tell stomach pain from dysmenorrhea. It is obviously dysmenorrhea. " Then point to your stomach. The whole waiting room is full of crying girls. Some family members of other waiting patients couldn't help laughing: "This girl is not stupid, is she?" I can't tell stomach pain from dysmenorrhea. "

Second, I went to have a prenatal examination when I was pregnant. In front of me is a pregnant woman in labor. The doctor read her diagnosis, frowned and said, "Is everyone at home?" The girl said, "No."The doctor paused and said, "B-ultrasound shows that there is water in the baby's brain, and it may be induced." The girl was a little confused: "My due date is coming soon. What is hydrocephalus in the brain? " The doctor took a deep breath and said, "As the saying goes, there is water in his head." It was originally a very sad thing, but when the doctor said this, other people waiting for treatment couldn't help laughing.

Third, I have dysmenorrhea. The pain was unbearable, so I ran to the hospital. There were so many people in the hospital that the doctor gave me a urine test sheet. I painfully took the urine sample to the laboratory. Results The doctor in the laboratory took a look and said, "No urine test during menstruation will affect the accuracy of the test results." "This is the doctor's prescription!" I feel terrible pain, and I really don't want to go again. "I said it would affect the accuracy of the inspection. Whether you are willing to spend money or not depends on you. " After hearing what he said, I went to the attending doctor and told the doctor in the laboratory that I couldn't have a urine test during my period. The attending doctor was angry: "Who said that! I have been a doctor for more than ten years and have never heard of it. Go and check, I have to go to work later. " Others are still waiting to see a doctor, and I can't help it. I ran upstairs in pain and went to the chemist with a urine sample. When the doctor saw it was me again, he said grumpily, "How come it's you again! I didn't say I couldn't take the exam. " "But the doctor wants me to test it!" "I am a doctor in the laboratory, and I said that the test results are not accurate." Anyway, I just don't accept my samples. No way, I ran downstairs to the gynecological clinic again. The attending doctor packed his things and got ready to get off work. I stopped her: "doctor, the laboratory still says it can't be tested." The attending doctor hurried back and said impatiently, "I'm the attending doctor." I said I could test it. " I'm sweating with pain. I ran upstairs and downstairs several times. I was so angry that I shouted with all my strength, "You are all doctors. Who do I listen to? " The attending doctor said that the test was ok, but the laboratory doctor said no. Ran back and forth four or five times. What the hell? That's funny. "When the attending doctor saw that I lost my temper, his attitude softened and he comforted me and said," Don't worry, I'll call the laboratory. "Then I successfully tested it.

A hospital is like a grand view garden in a red building, and obstetrics and gynecology can best reflect the multifaceted nature of human nature. More intuitive and convincing. Every day, all kinds of human warmth and coldness are staged here, just like an extreme mirror.

Outside the delivery room, grandparents were anxious and excited. The glory of the king is his father, which is a life-and-death human test of love and affection.

As soon as the back door of the operation opened, some people scrambled to see the children first, while others scrambled to see the parturient first. It's grandparents who go to see the children first, and grandparents who go to see the parturient. In fact, too many people do this.

A girl came for an abortion. As soon as the operation was over, the girl insisted on telling the nurse that my boyfriend was waiting for me outside. Please tell him not to worry him. But in fact, the door is empty.

The girl finally burst into tears, her pale face biting her lips tightly. She said that when she found out that she was pregnant and told the boy, the boy just played the game machine and told her to abort without looking up.

Run, love rat. If you can't take responsibility, you must control your body and don't commit iniquity, like a wild dog in heat.

I hope that our society can provide for the young and the old, and everyone can be treated gently.

The first time I went to practice in obstetrics, I met a wonderful and thrilling thing.

1, induced labor is a beautiful woman, beautiful. But she came to induce labor alone, and she was desperate. She doesn't talk to anyone, and her face is expressionless. It seems that everything has nothing to do with her.

The nurse looked at it and said that the parturient's uterus was not opened at all, and it was estimated that it would take a long time to give birth. Let me keep an eye on it. She went to the dormitory. The nurse walked for a few minutes. I went to see the pregnant woman, but the baby's head had come out. I was frightened, so I quickly asked the surgical nurse to call the obstetric nurse.

The obstetric nurse arrived a few minutes later and the baby was born.

It is strange that when children are born, they are all red and purple. This is the first time I have seen such a fat boy. Probably all drag out an ignoble existence, all handsome men and beautiful women, but unfortunately all are evil and finally abandoned.

In the afternoon, the old obstetric nurse came forward, took a hoe and buried me under the big tree next to the fence.

2. The story above is disgusting. I dare not say it directly. My mother's story is very warm. My mother is a rural midwife. One day, I went to find someone to deliver the baby. It was a widow who gave birth to a boy. The widow refused to have children and asked my mother to take them away.

The mother took the baby home. Aunt Shanghai happened to be in my house when two old ladies collapsed and bought a bunch of clothes and milk powder. After 7 or 8 days, the widow and a bachelor came to my house, crying to death, and took the child back. Even the clothes, quilts and milk powder were swept away.

Because of this, we have been laughing at our mother all our lives. It can be said that it is painstaking and arduous to raise four children alone. You are old enough to joke like this.

I'm so touched. I'm going to have a baby. Still in the hospital the day after giving birth. A girl came in the early morning, estimated to be around 18, maybe not 18. She didn't show much concern, just carrying a bag like shopping. I didn't bring anything else, and nothing happened. Still following a man, but much older than this woman. There is no communication between the two. I thought to myself, this is another old married couple model, and I secretly scolded love rat. Soon, the girl said she was hungry. The man swore and finally ordered takeout! Shocked again! I thought to myself, if you don't care, just send some takeout to pregnant women! Really ruined my three views! The point is that neither of them looks like they will have children in the future. After staying for two hours, we started chatting in the ward. It turns out that the man is the girl's father and the girl's mother has long been divorced. However, it is rare for a father to be so indifferent to his daughter. I feel that this father wants to leave at any time and is unwilling to take care of it. Why didn't anyone from this girl's husband's family come along? I wondered, the girl couldn't stand the pain, sat on the ground and blew up the iron bedside table in the hammer ward crazily. I was shocked again. I can only say that the pain is not enough, and I still have the strength to explode the bedside table. The voice was mixed with mourning and sobbing. The girl's father saw it and made a phone call. Someone in the ward asked about the girl's husband's family. The girl didn't hammer the bedside table and said that her boyfriend broke up and ruined the three views! (The other party is also under 20 years old). Then the doctor came and took the girl to the delivery room. At dawn, an old lady and a girl's grandmother came. The girl's father has disappeared, and he probably doesn't want to care. The old lady said that she told the doctor that she didn't want the child, which means that the doctor had to deal with it when she was born, which ruined the three views. But how dare the doctor! This is murder. So I was born. The old lady returned to the ward, complained to us a few words, and then slowly went out to buy clothes, milk powder and diapers for her children ... She felt very sour, and the children felt that the whole family was uncomfortable. You can also imagine what kind of environment this child will grow up in.

Therefore, the influence of family on a person is really too great. The girl's condition is inseparable from her broken family, lack of teaching and parents' love and education.

After giving birth to the child, the mother never left the hospital because of the child's surname. Finally, the young couple divorced. Is it a beautiful thing?

That was in 2007, my wife went to the hospital for labor, and there was already a expectant mother in the same ward. At that time, the expectant mother was surrounded by a group of people, including her husband, her parents and her parents-in-law. Six people are talking and laughing happily. When they saw us go in, they greeted us warmly, saying that their room was temporary, and they had contacted the independent delivery room next door, and they would move in when others moved out tomorrow.

The next morning, the expectant mother advanced into the operating room, and her family packed up in the next ward. Then go outside the operating room and wait for the arrival of new life. After a while, the nurse pushed the parturient out and happily told the person waiting outside that it was a son. A family of four old people and a newly promoted father, very happy, returned to the ward together surrounded by women.

Back in the ward in the afternoon, I heard my new father and my father-in-law talking in the corridor. Although we can feel that they are all trying to lower their voices, the anger in the words can easily reach our ears. Obviously, two people are discussing the child's surname-is it the father's surname or the mother's surname (that is, the father's surname)? We heard clearly between the lines, and the new father made it very clear. It probably means that we agreed at the beginning of pregnancy that we should take the man's surname when giving birth to a son and the woman's surname when giving birth to a daughter. Now it is estimated that the old father-in-law watched his daughter give birth to a grandson, and wanted to violate the agreement and let the grandson take his surname, which was opposed by his son-in-law.

Here, I want to explain a new marriage custom called "squatting at both ends". Both men and women are nominally staying at home when they get married. There is no such thing as marriage or adoption. The advantage of this is that the procedure is simple, and every marriage is held separately, so there is no need for bride price and dowry to come and go. The only problem is the surname of the future child. Before the liberalization of the second child policy, young couples got married and had a child. Generally speaking, it is necessary to negotiate who is their last name. One side is easy to talk to, and everyone is happy. If both sides are opinionated, it will easily lead to conflict.

Like this family, it is estimated that there is an agreement in advance, and the temporary party will go back on its word. In the afternoon, I saw the unfriendly communication between my son-in-law and my father-in-law. At night, I heard the cries of the lying-in women in the next ward. I accompanied my mother to persuade them. How can you make the parturient cry on the first day of delivery? You will get eye diseases in the future.

Well, I admit I used to watch the fun.

Adults on both sides don't talk, and the young man's eyes are red. Leave a message and be reasonable!

The next morning, I heard a banging sound coming from next door, and the hospital security guard rushed up. It turned out that mom's father and father-in-law had an argument over the baby's surname in the morning, and continued to push and shove, dropping the washbasin on the bedside table. The young man stepped forward to help his father and was slapped by his father-in-law. Seeing his son being slapped by his in-laws, he immediately wrestled with his in-laws. Two men in their hundreds hit the corridor from the ward, which attracted many onlookers and security guards, and the doctor came to reprimand them.

So the fight stopped and the young man who had just become a father went home with his parents. Only mother's parents are left to take care of her. The child's grandmother came to chat with my mother while taking care of her daughter. She actually told my mother that she had told the hospital that the name on the child's birth certificate was the same as her daughter's surname. They are going to divorce their daughter and son-in-law. What is even more outrageous is that she said that after leaving the hospital, this "grandson" (actually a grandson) will be raised by the old couple, and the daughter will just find a companion like a big girl. This stunned me and ruined it! Is it so easy for divorced women who have given birth to children to find a partner? Where did you get the confidence?

On the fourth day, I was discharged from the hospital next door and didn't see my father and grandparents. According to doctors and nurses, in those years, young couples divorced for their children's surname after giving birth, and they saw much more.

Who would have thought that a second child would be allowed in less than ten years? If they had taken the man's surname according to the agreement, it is estimated that they have given birth to a second child in recent years! Unfortunately, for a surname, Lao Yan finally parted ways!

Colleague Lao Zhou is from Zhoukou, Henan. He went home to see his father in hospital, stayed in the hospital for a while, and came back to tell me such a thing:

That night, about twelve o'clock, someone shouted for help at the gate of the hospital. None of the doctors and nurses in the hospital came out. If someone looks at him, he is not interested. This is not a fight, and I don't know what it is. It's a man and an old lady who are yelling. There are women moaning in their cars. I should ask for help.

I went out to the front of the car with another man and found that a pregnant woman was pulled in the car and broke water. It was her husband and mother-in-law who cried for help. Her husband is thin and short, and his body can't be held or moved by him. Her mother-in-law is also a skinny person. When she arrived at the hospital, she had no choice but to call for help. As a result, none of the doctors and nurses came, only the two of us came.

Seeing someone coming, the two men knelt down and begged us. There is no way for four people to accidentally carry pregnant women into the hospital. A nurse came to have a look and said, go into the delivery room. Pointed to the direction, motioned for us to carry it in and left.

The husband ran up and down to find a doctor and nurse, and all the children were born here. We were both wrapped in clothes and kicked out of the delivery room. See no problem, we left.

At dawn the next day, my husband found us both and asked for money to thank us, but we didn't ask for it. We were not invited to dinner, so we received two packs of cigarettes from him. Knowing that I have a son, everything is safe.

I am a timid soldier, and I am telling stories around me.

I want to say: a hospital should be a place to cure diseases and save lives. But no doctors and nurses came to see the people calling for help at the hospital gate. Maybe I don't know if people have money. Dear friends, should hospitals aim at treating diseases and saving lives? Or is it better to make money and create benefits?

Indifference comes from interests, and selfless help comes from nature. Maybe we think too much of economic benefits, and this road won't work.