What is a joke and how to joke correctly?

The act of joking is what people see and hear in their daily lives. Many people use humor to express their feelings and adjust the atmosphere, but in some cases, joking may turn into bullying. Here are some cases of bullying others in the name of joking:

1. Bullying obese people: People often laugh at obese people jokingly. For example, at the dinner table, they will say, "You eat so much, no wonder you are fat!" Or post photos of obese people on social media and add some irony to the comments. These behaviors may make obese people feel inferior and humiliated.

2. Bullying people with bad looks: Some people will make fun of people with bad looks unintentionally or intentionally. They will laugh at each other's looks and even make them feel depressed out of shame.

3. Laugh at clothes: Some people will also say that someone is not dressed properly in a joking way, such as "You are too old-fashioned, why don't you even know a fashion?" Or "Your pants are too tight, which makes you look ugly!" Although they may think that their words are not malicious, such behavior may make people feel ashamed and embarrassed.

4. Laugh at personal habits: Some people also laugh at someone's habits in a joking way, such as "Are you still using that old mobile phone?" Or "Do you like candy? What a childish habit! " Such behavior will make the mocked person feel sick and sad.

In short, it is wrong to bully others in a joking way. We should respect all people and try our best to use more constructive language to promote good exchanges and cooperation. If we notice that some people are being bullied, we should give them support and help, and let them know that they are not alone, but worthy of respect.