Is it good to not have children after marriage?

I personally believe that it is not necessary to have children after marriage, do not have children on the future life will not have much impact, of course, this is also combined with the family's financial resources and the family's tolerance.

1, the traditional concept

Chinese have an old saying is "unfilial three, no later for the big", so our country since ancient times has been concerned about the succession, the newcomer once the marriage, the family will urge to have children. And now young people are under pressure, either to postpone having children, or do not have children choose Dink, based on this situation, it depends on your family tolerance, if your family tolerance is very strong, parents, elders do not interfere in the young people's business, then you can not have children, you will not have too much impact. But if your family doesn't agree, then in the future your family pressure will be overwhelmed by the issue of not having children.

2, the family atmosphere

Marriage does not necessarily have to have children in order to live a good life, do not have children have the benefits of not having children, but have children more fun. For example, on New Year's Day, other people's homes are bustling with people getting together, teasing their children, talking and laughing, while your home is cold and quiet, the family is relatively speechless, then even if you don't want to have a child, the heart will still have a little bit of envy.

3, whether the financial resources allow

This is a very critical issue, young people do not have children feel very relaxed, do not have to think about the child's milk money, do not have to think about the child's tuition, do not have to think about the child's growth, their own little life want to how to live how to live, but the old? If the other half of the first to go, they are alone, there is not even a person to talk to around, sick around the two water feeding medicine people are not. So if you don't plan to have children, you must save up a sum of money, and when you are old, you will have to rely on your own financial resources to solve the problem of sick medication and living in a nursing home.

Of course, it's up to you to decide whether or not you want to have children, and if you've already planned your future life, it's fine if you don't have children. The above is just my personal opinion, for reference only.