My brother broke the tradition.

Because after your parents died, your brother helped you every day, so for you, your father and your various positions are actually the same, which is what our traditional concept means.

So it's normal for you to leave your brother. After all, the relationship between you two is not only a family relationship, but also a father-son relationship.

Besides, you will grow up after all, so you should learn to be independent. Although you can't live without your brother emotionally, you need independence in your daily life. You can't rely on your brother for everything, because it's not easy for your brother. He has been under too much pressure these years. You should help him to relieve the pressure.

So I suggest that you have the opportunity to go out to work by yourself, you can leave this home, let your brother have his own life, and you can also seek your own life. After the two people have developed well, you will be very happy to recall such a thing.