The reality of childishness to maturity 200 words

Childhood to Maturity Reality Talk 200 Words

Maturity and Childhood

We all have to go through a process from childishness to maturity from toddler to adult, and this process is difficult and complicated. The toddler self is characterized by a sense of innocence, a feeling of curiosity about the things around us and a sense of ignorance about everything, a feeling that keeps us happy all the time, all the time, a feeling that is natural and innate to human beings. As time passes, we begin to recognize things around us more and more, forming memory frames in our minds and storing them in preparation for future use. At home, our parents are our first teachers, they teach us the basics of life, what's right, what's wrong, what we should do, what we shouldn't do, and we memorize them forever. At a certain age, we have to accept and learn new things, update the knowledge in our minds, remove the useless and update the useful. At the same time, our parents begin to exercise our ability to do things and solve problems, and teach us by example what they know how to do things and what they have learned, so we have to observe them one by one. These are essential social skills that we must learn to survive and that will benefit us in the future. A person is na?ve because he has not yet known the real world, the real philosophies and the real meanings in a society where there are often many hidden unknown worlds, worlds that are dirty, messy and evil. In a thing can only see the surface side, the superficial side, the depth of knowledge is not easily perceived. In the stage of study, we met many students in school and made friends with some like-minded students, exchanged learning tips, exchanged (learning) experiences and emotions. School is like a small society where we have to take the initiative to learn and make new friends. In this process, we start to change slowly from a purely childish mind. Everyone is slowly transformed from a "little person" who knows nothing to a "big person" who knows everything. With this process of change, we gradually form a kind of independent self-awareness, and learn to solve their own problems in life. Since our brain is in control of our actions, we know exactly what we want because of our experiences with people in society. Most of our character and temperament are inherited and imitated from our parents, and because they are our own biological ones, there is a logical relationship of the same kind, like father, like son, and like mother, like daughter. From kindergarten to elementary school, from elementary school to junior high school, from junior high school to senior high school, from senior high school to college, and all the way to college, we have met all kinds of people and seen all kinds of environments in this long and varied learning path, and we have been able to develop ourselves from childishness to maturity. In order to become independent and mature from childishness, we must first learn to live independently from our parents and develop our independence in the single-digit years when we are approaching the double-digit years. Each one of us belongs to the society, has his/her own right to choose, has his/her own right to learn, has his/her own right to manipulate. Childishness is the mark of a boy and a girl, and maturity is the mark of a man and a woman. A childish and a mature person can be easily experienced from the image of the body, this image is witnessed by others, and then by the words and behavior to prove out how it is a person. A mature person has a kind of cultivation in him, which is shaped by his parents' education and himself. Mature people, can know the daily life of politeness and social language, he saw a familiar people, will take the initiative to go forward to say hello, see their own can do and can do things, will take the initiative to actively go forward to do, to see other people have difficulties or need to help, will take the initiative to actively go forward to help. A person needs to go through the frustration of life, try to live in the bitter, through life and death in order to learn to have their own signs of maturity, to adhere to the feeling of maturity, so that they go to know life, to enjoy life. A mature person, in its body will store a certain amount of knowledge, a certain amount of social experience, and a certain amount of social experience. Maturity can make a person's character become calm, the consideration of things become comprehensive, and the view of things become thorough. Maturity, may become as an adult has the sign to control their own, but the fact is not so, have a certain independent ability to reflect to the maturity, can say the depth of speech can also reflect the maturity, do things actively and positively can also reflect the maturity, there is a perspective out of the social mind can also reflect the maturity, can understand some of the social aspects of the human condition can also reflect the maturity. In life, we will come into contact with many different types of people, take the strengths of others to remedy their own shortcomings, so that they can change. With the passage of time, they will take others as their own reference body to compare with their own personal characteristics, when they find themselves deficiencies, the right medicine to correct them, when they find their own strengths and others can not be found on the body, they will keep it for a long time, and the use of self-improvement, sometimes there is a kind of zero mentality, so that they re-learn, learn from the past and know the new, the same thing, when there are different points of view pointing to the new, so that they can change. The same thing, when there are different points of view pointing to it, it will produce different results.

It is a process of maturity and change, in this ever-changing society, in order to adapt to it, we have to constantly change ourselves, constantly learning, constantly updating their own knowledge, and sometimes accepting new ideas and rejecting the old ones. Most of our lives will be forced out by reality, forcing us to develop towards maturity and survival of the fittest. Therefore, the process of their own maturity is due to their own continuous progress and the formation of society from the elimination of the outsiders, so that they have to adapt to the development of social humanities. In life, there will inevitably be a lot of unpleasant, unpleasant things come to themselves, they do not easily lose their temper, to control their emotions, emotions are the highest product of mankind, it is a self-protection shield, can be their own about to vent out of the temper suppressed. When one's temper is vented, it creates an unmanageable situation, which can lead to the nasty effect of harming others and oneself. Do not take the good small, not to the evil small, life, every complex thing is made up of one after another simple things, every small thing, we should deal with or to deal with, to improve or to improve, never half a point of hesitation. Every small and simple thing is the most important thing for complex things, sometimes because a small thing is not good enough to accomplish a big thing. So some things are very small, but we should pay attention to them. A selfish person tends to be self-centered thinking, for their own interests to make choices, the feelings of others completely ignored, which is an immature person's unique characteristics. A mature person is easily accepted by others, while a relatively childish person may be rejected by others, because a mature person is easier to attract people in every aspect, easy to establish a more in-depth communication platform, while a childish person thinks things more superficially, easy to produce differences in the communication platform. From the common sense of life: a mature behavior relative to the childish, then appear to be more poised, more cultivated, more thinking, more determined. A mature person is able to have a tolerant heart towards others, able to tolerate the smallest things in the world. Some things are relatively small for themselves, it is not necessary to calculate, no need to be stubborn about it, in life there are a lot of things in fact is no big deal, as long as they live a healthy life on it. A tolerant heart, able to resolve conflicts, able to save the friendship, affection and love, and promote harmony between each other, and harmony ****. Tolerance is a good medicine to break the error, a chance to correct the error, the error into nothing. Maturity, can be reflected in the individual's unique sense of self-confidence, that sense of self-confidence is cultivated by the individual in the community, and not false. Everyone has a sense of social confidence that belongs to him or her, a feeling that is difficult for others to replace. It can be attached to the master to assume due sense of social responsibility, to fulfill due social obligations, have the courage to admit mistakes, and face the reality of the temperament. Reality, not in accordance with their own ideas to change, is by the properties of the society **** have the will and property of the development of the contribution to change, this change can sometimes be said to be at the mercy of God, to find suitable for their own work needs to go to reality, the pursuit of their preferred partner needs to go to reality, and people need to go to reality, into the social survival needs to go to reality, in our surroundings, will be everywhere! In our surroundings, the reality in society will be produced everywhere. Reality is sometimes very scary for us, but we have to face it, the reality is very real to tell us that we have no qualification to escape, and no qualification to get out of.

When I was in high school, I was studying and living in a closed environment. In school, the main thing is to exercise their own independent self-care ability, washing clothes, bathing, folding quilts and shoes, at that time the present is to learn the most basic, at that time they are not quite aware of the difference between childishness and maturity of the problem. In addition to studying and socializing with classmates, there was no other choice. At that time, because his character is too introverted, do not know how to socialize with others. In the usual study and life, in addition to one or two classmates who can talk to each other, the rest of the classmates basically adopt a completely closed attitude. When you see other students talking and laughing, you should be able to talk with them due to their own psychological effects inhibit themselves from opening their mouths (not have the courage to let themselves to open, even if they open also do not know how to interject), a by the desire of the heart into a disappointed heart, lost the opportunity to communicate with others. Because of this, I put all my thoughts into my studies and didn't want to pay attention to anything else. At that time, I realized that I needed to learn to stand on my own two feet. At that time, I was quite naive, failed to understand the deep truths of life, some things are rather superficial. I remember that in my senior year of high school there was a student said to himself: are not chemical. I listened to him and did not know what he meant, I now look back and realize that he said he could not see things, but also know the deeper meaning implied in it. I remember in the old family once, listening to the mother and grandmother in front of their own words, see that the "two younger brothers" are now very mature, but "I" in the present (relatively speaking) is still very childish, I heard after the sudden feeling that I can not compare with the two younger brothers. I felt that I was no match for my two younger brothers. They were illustrated by the positive side, and I was illustrated by the negative side. There was also a time when my mother said that he actually wanted to make friends with others and get along with them, but he didn't know how to socialize with them, which is

From childish to mature

My mother spoke her mind, and I felt that I had been confused for a long time in this way. After high school, then college. When you go to college, you'll have to go out of town, and you'll have the opportunity to see the world outside. At that time, I was full of curiosity and a sense of freshness about the outside world, thinking that being outside would make me mature slowly. In the first month of life in the university, in the class with a classmate very naturally talk to the sky, become friends, class together with the class, every meal time he will call me from the dormitory down to accompany him to go to the dining hall to eat. (After a month in the university, back to the local, the feeling can be really different, this feeling comes from the field than the local to see a lot of things. In the field back to the local night, his family with the uncle's home for dinner, when into the uncle's home, has seen a lot of relatives sitting and chatting and watching TV, in which there is a cousin face to face to see my kind, said to me that I feel that he came back from the field after a lot of maturity, indeed, in the outside world can not be seen here, for her to me to say the words hold a sense of identity.) But a month after the Mid-Autumn Festival holiday back to school, it feels very strange, why he did not find me to play it, found that he became with other students to talk and laugh and gradually alienated me. My heart is very difficult, there is a feeling of wanting to cry, also thought in the big city to study in the university can easily obtain friendship, how do you know a cold encounter to make oneself become disheartened. But no matter what, or need me to come to face such a cruel reality. When I myself asked why he did not continue to interact with me, he came straight back to me a sentence: I do not have words to say to you, can only do with you as a common friend, at that time in the heart of the head cackle a bit. In a computer class fancy a sister's online chat number, I then it will be written down, to carry on the online relationship, always looking for her online chat, but she is also very happy, there have been a number of times in the school to see her real life, at that time is also very excited, and now want to go back to the time of their own is very naive. But after a long time by her friends caused a misunderstanding I often find her online chat is to pursue her, but I do not have such an idea. In a date after dinner, she cut off the communication between each other, the relationship between each other, but also said each other just a passer-by in life. At that time, I was really dumbfounded, did not know what was going on, she took the initiative to cut off contact with their own. The truth is, I had no choice. After a while, I met some people because I joined a so-called entrepreneurship alliance. These people were very friendly, but I thought that it was just a superficial experience in my college life, but in fact, it really helped me to get to know people from other schools. I had the feeling that the more people I met and the more friends I made, the more mature I would become. The outside world is full of complex environments, and if you are not careful, it is easy to get caught up in some unknown events, and in some complex societies, there are often a lot of unspoken rules and regulations. In the big family, I am a relatively naive person compared to my brother. In the usual gatherings, will hear my brother confidently and boldly speak to the public, in my opinion, they are mature and humorous people, relative to me, they know more knowledge than I know more than I know more than I know more than I know more than I know more than I understand the society more thoroughly than I do things more active than I know more than I know more than I know more than the courtesy of the mind more flexible and agile. I am the opposite of them, and I am often told off, scolded, and looked at differently. LOL! All of this was self-inflicted. Now, after coming out to work has changed a lot, some of my relatives no longer have another opinion of me. In the past, their own life to play a kind of attitude of avoidance, afraid to face, to others ask the question of the performance of the mute (speechless), to escape from the reality of the test. Avoiding life is a kind of cowardly behavior, an excuse for not being able to come to face oneself, and when tortured by others, one becomes speechless. But now, one has to really face the reality of life, the reality is sometimes very cruel to oneself, one has to lower one's dignity and obey to face. Sometimes in some bakeries and some large shopping malls when shopping, shoppers will take the initiative to come up to address themselves as Mr. (please what do you need help with). In this one address, it shows that he is already an adult, reflecting his maturity, and can have his own right to choose and the right to speak and have his own opinion. In college, because of a chance encounter and a number of meetings, I became friends with an eye-opening, outgoing, attractive girl. After having a long relationship with her, I felt happy and positive energy in her. In my opinion, she is a cheerful and sociable person, I think she can keep a very happy mood to face life and study every day, and in the stage of relationship, there is a mature boyfriend accompanied, really have to call me envious. Can make friends with her, is rare, I have to sigh myself is so lucky, she also encouraged themselves to be happy, with optimism to meet every day of life, do not be pessimistic, although this is said, but their own self can only be happy in a very short period of time, most of the time are in a sad state of mind. Later, in the second half of the year with her acquaintance, she soon went out to work and turned into an up

Social person of the class. One of her own friends that she had dated from high school all the way through college went to another school district to continue her studies. During that time, the local school district had no more friends of their own coming over, so it was just themselves. At school, there was often a rather lonely feeling in my heart, so I often rode my bike out alone for a long trip to relieve my depressed mood. No one accompanied, the heart of the nest is like being cut by a knife, like, feel that they are going to face the extinction of interpersonal communication, there is no way to choose, can not take the courage to socialize with others, the heart of the trouble nowhere to vent, want to find her to talk about her heart but embarrassed to disturb her time of life, therefore, they also had to call her often to chat, in order to unlock the mood of bitterness. Later, because he did not take into account the limits of the relationship between the friendship, making her to himself to produce a certain psychological effect of antipathy, had to make himself have been scolded by the counterproductive appearances, in this case, he had to admit his mistakes. Now I recall that period of time in the university, I really want to sigh a good deal: if in that period of time without her friend's support and encouragement to me, I do not know how to face their own university life, whenever I think of her words, I will have a kind of life at the moment upward feeling, so as my own I'm very thankful to her appreciation and willing to do with me as a friend. At that time I was still na?ve to think that the same amount of effort can be exchanged for the same amount of return, and that the effort and the return are directly proportional to each other. As long as you hold a certain amount of payment for your friend, the same amount of return will come to you. But in real life is not so generalized, I pay for you, you must return to me, it depends on the situation, I pay for your friendship, will reap the benefits of your friendship, but not necessarily corresponding to the same amount, I pay for your love, you also I pay the same love. In some things childish and mature ideas, just lies in this thought. In life, keep a happy mood can make the mind become optimistic, and vice versa pessimistic. An emotional relationship can make a person from childish to mature. A happy mood can inspire the generation of self-confidence and upwardly mobile mentality, is the true feelings from the heart, is a good mood for the health of the body. When we are children, we are happy and less burdened children, and when we are adults, we are mature and socially capable people who have a lot of things to think about. So some people would say that the more you are a child, the happier you are, and the more you grow up, the less happy you are, and this is true because we encounter a lot of ups and downs, a lot of obstacles, and a lot of difficult hurdles in our lives. In life, we do not all go smoothly, like a straight line, there are always ups and downs appear, and we have to have the ability to resist stress and blows, so that it will become some of their own burden to bear, or else it would have hung up, but when there are good things to come to their own side, learn to understand that good things come in small packages. Our sadness is caused by the pain brought by subjective and objective factors, sadness of loss of favor, sadness of loss of relatives, sadness of loss of love, sadness of loss of friends, sadness of loss of love, sadness of loss of job, sadness of loss (sadness of loss of body). Sadness is only in their own encounter with adversity, not enough to let it flaunt out to become a big deal, a person has had the experience of sadness in order to hone into a mature mind, sadness is only their own way to the victory of the auxiliaries only. A perfectionist is more prone to sadness, they tend to strive for perfection and can never successfully achieve it, causing them to be dissatisfied with the objective requirements. This causes them to feel a sense of great disappointment (dropping their glasses). At that point in time, one was in a semi-childish, semi-mature psychological feeling, which is the normal state of mind held during the transition period of college. In a period of time, I have been living in loneliness, have been cold-shouldered by my roommates, and my will has been very low and lifeless (sometimes in the dormitory at night when I go to bed, in bed, some of my roommates are chatting with me, and sometimes ask me about the east and ask me about the west, and chatting quite happily with myself. By the next day, the housemates don't care about me, except with me to go to class together, such a psychological change is a big difference, and I can't get used to it). I became like this by the words of a friend who left the campus not long ago to validate the words, because I do not want to communicate with people this problem with him in conflict, I feel right, but he felt wrong, and I also stubbornly insisted on their own point of view, and therefore I even fell to the end of their own lives to the psychological tendency of the living, which shows that the authorities are confused by the bystander, did not expect to be aware of the parents! , then called over to ask about the situation and told himself to go home during vacation time to let off steam, rest and communicate with his family about the emotions in his life. In the evening, talked with his mother, only to know that no one wants to communicate with himself because of his own immaturity of mind, coupled with his own poor speech, slow thinking or closed, narrow interests, no attraction in the body in the highlights, is to lead to their own long-term sense of loneliness and helplessness in a sense of reason, there is also a point is to realize that their own emotional quotient is very low. Sometimes, I feel around my friends are much more mature than around me, I feel a little frustrated, one is dead calm, one is lively and cheerful people, we all understand clearly in our hearts with whom life is sunshine, only with the impetus. She understood herself best and advised herself to let go of her mind about everything (look on the bright side) in the hope that she would mature a bit. It was at that time that one began to realize where the difference between childishness and maturity lies. After finishing college, you have to

get out of school and into society to develop yourself. In society, they have to face the difficulty of finding a job, to find their own suitable work is not an easy thing, because they have not practiced in the community has worked experience, do not know from their own aspects of which to start looking for. Later on, I was able to find a job that suited my needs by specializing in a certain field. Working in a company is different from studying in the past, where you have to deal with people around you, and thus play a role in your ability to get along with others. It has been more than a year since I started working as an intern. During this time, one is constantly changing, reflecting on oneself, and having to deal with different frustrating blows. During this period of time, I find myself slowly becoming mature, but there is still a certain difference distance with others, hey! I still need to work hard. Now, they have to face the difficult problem of finding a partner, they are always around people think that the mind is still immature, I myself do not know how to face such a predicament, how to go, a blank, in their own hearts can not get positioning. I believe that when I can find a girlfriend of my own, everyone will be happy for me.

Second:

Speaking of maturity

Speaking of maturity

By chance, I listened to an ear of Hongda Liang's financial story, and generally understood a little bit of Steve Jobs's private life and personality traits. Jobs is actually a very "screwed up" person, he died without seeing his biological father and refused to pay his illegitimate daughter's alimony and other jaw-dropping behavior highlights his egotistical, cold and selfish side; and on the eve of the end of his life, he was unusually open-minded to want to talk to his lifelong rival, Bill Gates, which reflects his enlightened I feel that Liang Hongda is talking about the man's life. I think Liang Hongda's statement that a man's maturity is divided into three stages is very reasonable. First, he leaves his parents and walks independently towards the society; second, he forms a family and shoulders responsibilities and missions; and third, he undergoes a life-and-death test?

About maturity, there are too many definitions, too many explanations, but on the whole they are relative to childishness. A person's physical maturity, but the psychological may not be mature; a person's age increased, may be old, but not exactly is mature.

Remembering an anecdote of Leslie Cheung. Once Zhang was surrounded by fans when the concert broke up, excited fans accidentally cut his arm, bleeding a little, back to the hotel, he cried for a long time for this small matter, the reporter who broke the news said, he was aggrieved like a child has not been weaned, even though at that time Zhang Guorong has been over 40 years old. fragile to this point, it would not be difficult to understand his suicide, not to mention that he was in the theater so deep, so long.

Dropping the psychology bag:

The basic concept of maturity in psychology is defined as a change in a person's mindset from childishness to a higher level of sophistication, a more rational view of things, and a process that often occurs in conjunction with a change in the surrounding environment, as well as the influence of other people.

Rationality and objectivity are emphasized, as is the role of surroundings and influence. But what exactly is the nucleus of maturity

? Is it compromise and conformity, meticulousness and profit? I'm afraid this is a mercenary philosophy, but it must be recognized that it may be the mainstream of society, and the common standard by which people in this country usually judge the maturity of others and themselves.

Thus, maturity seems to be a very cruel thing, it deprived of youthful dreams, darkened the colorful ideals; it forces people, the face of their own unwillingness to face the darkness of the grim, but also to fight the spirit of doing love - maturity means that the hypocrisy and camouflage is unavoidable? No. This is actually a misunderstanding.

My light perception makes me agree with the interpretation that true maturity is the unity of reason, wisdom, innocence and morality, and that maturity requires a healthy and free social environment, as well as an individual's ability to think independently and often reflect on himself.

Maturity does not exclude innocence, if some people often play on the petty capitalists "light lovesickness light sadness" and so on, it is also because they are only innocent gestures rather than innocence itself, or that they are made out of innocence, the network term is called "pretending to be pure! The Internet term "pretending to be pure" or "cute", although a bit indecent, but hit the nail on the head. Innocence is the original mind to view the original things when the natural flow of emotions and thoughts instinct, the most typical common example is the baby's smile and teenage boys and girls for the first time, and the face of nature's majestic and magnificent heartfelt sighs of admiration, and so on; and after all the vicissitudes of life still believe in the truth, goodness, and beauty, will still be sentimental tears, and is still unwilling to be with the false, evil, and ugly, refused to be with the dirty and evil, still maintains the true nature of the self, the true nature of the self. Still maintain the true nature of the self? These essentially the original intention has not changed, is the maturity covered by the innocence.

Maturity requires rationality and wisdom, and American psychologist Herbst listed 10 developmental tasks: 1. Establishing harmonious interpersonal relationships with peers in daily life, including both same-sex and opposite-sex friends. 2. Being able to act in appropriate gender roles. 3. Accepting one's own body and appearance. 4. They do not overly show off their strengths or hide their weaknesses, and are able to perform to their fullest potential.4. They become more mature and independent in their expression of emotions. No longer dependent on parents or other adults for support and protection in all matters. 5. Confident of financial independence. 6. Able to choose a career that suits their abilities and interests, and willing to work hard to prepare for that career. 7. Considering seriously the choice of a marriage partner and beginning to prepare for a family life. 8. Able to meet the standards required for citizenship in terms of knowledge, attitudes, and other aspects. 9. Be willing to participate in social activities and also be able to be responsible for their own behavior in social activities. 10. Be able to establish their own values and moral standards in their personal behavioral orientation. In my opinion, no matter from what point of view and cognitive point of view, these ten developmental goals of Hewes can be used as one of the criteria for judging "maturity", because it is reasonable and in line with the basic developmental laws and trajectory of life.

Rationality requires people to face life with an objective perspective and a relaxed attitude; wisdom includes IQ and EQ, which are complementary to each other, and the absence of either one does not constitute the element of wisdom in maturity. The great wisdom of the collection of maturity of the great success; small wisdom in front of the great wisdom is at best only a small witch to see a big witch.

Toward maturity is the direction of life, but also a peaceful and happy life belonging. The moral measure of maturity needs to be based on a public **** moral foundation. Back to the topic of Hongda Liang, the psychological maturity of men also have a number of standards, such as the importance of promises, educated and reserved, broad-minded not self-centered, the courage to admit mistakes will be firm and so on. But the difference in perception will always affect the universal theory in the practice of the process of running away.

Both men and women, the sign of psychological maturity must be indispensable sense of responsibility and tolerance

The two aspects **** exist this one. Grateful for life, positive; setbacks do not complain; smooth sailing when not complacent; the so-called spoiled, it is the atmosphere of capitalization of maturity and spontaneity. From childish to mature said