How to learn good manners

Learn good manners from at least the following aspects:

Respect. The soul of etiquette

(1) Respect for superiors:

First, obey orders;

Second, maintain prestige;

Third, treat people as equals;

Fourth, do not overstep your position.

(2) Respect for subordinates:

First, treat subordinates sincerely;

Second, respect the personality of subordinates.

(3) Respect for colleagues:

First, support each other;

Second, care for each other;

Third, treat people as equals;

Fourth, treat people with sincerity.

(4) Respect for guests:

First, warm reception;

Second, eagerness to help;

Third, treating people the same;

Fourth, taking great pains.

2. Integrity.

Can't do it can't promise, even if a single loss can't go back on their word, should be truthful, careful commitment.

3. Grasp the boundary distance

(1) intimate distance, husband and wife, father (mother) and son (daughter) of the private plot, the distance between 1.5-4.6MM, the public court under the indecent.

(2) personal distance, interpersonal distance, for the proximal 4.6-7.6MM distal 7.6MM-1.2M.

(3) social distance, belonging to the business negotiation, the general interaction of strangers, the leadership and subordinates, the conversation of high-level meetings, important negotiations, proximal 1.2 -2.1M far end 2.1-2.6M.

(4) Public distance. The place of classroom and lecture, near end 3.6-7.6M, far end 7.6M or more.

4. Respect for ladies, "ladies first"

5. Position object

Government etiquette respect for the left, social and foreign etiquette respect for the right. (Facing the door positioning, the right is honored, to the far above. Meeting, the center for a hand, then the left for the second in command, the right for three, in order of ranking. But business meetings, the host's right hand side for the guests to honor the position) and so on.

6. Marching rules, generally clockwise, but athletes enter the counterclockwise, the car in front of the hotel traveling counterclockwise.

7. Introduction

Self-introduction, real simple and frank confidence. Other people introduced, should be first introduced to the position of inferior to the position of senior, subordinate to the superior, men introduced to women, and so on. The group introduction, more formal, from the highest position in the pipe or from the elderly start, can also be from left to right start.

8. Greetings

(1) Greetings between a person and a person, the position of the lower first or the younger first, the man meets the woman man first. (2) a person to greet more than one person, the greeting is a kind of respect, should be enthusiastic and active, sincere and generous;

(3) shaking hands, is a sign of sincerity, should be greeted before shaking hands, the master of the lady superiors should be the first to reach out, feet upright, the upper body leaning forward a little bit, a slight grip of the guest four fingers, moderate time, slightly shaking three to four times, and then let go, the weight of 1-2kg The weight is 1-2 kilograms. Never wear gloves and guests to shake hands, that is disrespectful to each other, and do not have a left-handed handshake; also do not hold the hands of the opposite sex for a long time; also do not look left and right when shaking hands.