Is "double marriage" really the best of both worlds? How do you feel about this form of marriage?

Jiangsu and Zhejiang areas do not know when the so-called? The so-called men do not marry women do not marry, give birth to two children a with the father's last name a with the mother's last name, so there is really no contradiction, in fact, simply impossible.

One, such a marriage is actually from the root or patriarchal in the blame.

Why do you want to be unmarried is that the woman feels that no one inherits her family's property, so she needs her daughter to give birth to an heir with her own last name. But is it that simple? Have you ever thought of a problem, the birth of two people children of the same sex okay, if the birth of a man and a woman two children how to do? Is not the two families still have to conflict, because both want the boy with their family name. Even if it has been previously decided that the first child will take the father's surname and the second child will take the mother's surname or something like that, then how can we guarantee that the parents will definitely have two children, in case one is born and then they can't have any more, and in case there are triplets all of a sudden? All of these factors are surprises, but they all have to be considered. A human being is not an object in the first place, and any contingency is possible. It's too idealistic to stipulate it this way, and in reality the possibility of accidents is too great.

Two, this kind of marriage satisfies the parents but makes things difficult for the children.

Originally, it is a happy thing for two young people to get married, but their parents have made it very difficult for them to do so. The two of them can't spend the holidays together and have to go back to their respective parents' homes; they can't live in one house for too long because the other one will have a problem with it; etc. The two of them have to go back to their respective parents' homes and have to spend the holidays together. These two people married married is also too suffocating it, how their own things they have no autonomy, can only listen to their parents it. And the two people who got married should be a family, how now become the messenger of the two families, it feels like just to fulfill the responsibility of conceiving the next generation together.

This so-called ? two-headed marriage? It will be even more troublesome when the grandchildren grow up a little bit more, because a lot of hidden dangers will be exposed, and then it will be another mess.