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Shandong wedding wedding customs

Customs:

Go single back to double: refers to the number of people who go to pick up the bride for the odd number, back plus the bride is just an even number, meaning that the system refers to pairs, than the wings.

Stealing teacups: when the man goes to the woman's home to pick up the bride, there is usually one person secretly will bring the handle of the teacups back to the in-laws.

No backtracking: This refers to the fact that the route of the caravan from the mother-in-law's house to pick up the bride and the route from the mother's house back to the mother-in-law's house (or hotel) are not duplicated.

Knocking brick: the general bride to the bride's home, often will be "rejected", only to the door more than a few red envelopes, the door inside the bride's family will open the door to let the bride into the house.

Palanquin Buns and Sedan Chair Noodles: When the bride is ready to leave her mother's home, the bride's mother will give the bride dumplings to eat, and when the bride's family will be successful in bringing the bride back to her mother-in-law's home, the noodles will be cooked for the bride.

Before the start of the wedding banquet, the hotel table is generally placed on the snacks melon seeds and so on. Generally six kinds of small dishes, respectively, with happy cigarettes, happy sugar, white melon seeds, black melon seeds and two kinds of snacks. In addition, also need to be placed in the center of the carousel of various types of alcohol and marked to participate in the banquet guests of the table, such as the groom's classmates, the bride's friends, male relatives, staff and so on.

The podium seating is generally divided into in-laws with the mother's family, that is, men and women were seated, men left and women right. Respectively for both parents, both leaders (including witnesses and officiating), both relatives on behalf of the introducer, and so on. Each party to four to six people appropriate.

Tips:

Don't forget to bring: marriage license, wedding tokens, parents to the new couple's red envelope.

Don't forget to prepare gifts or red envelopes for the hotel head chef and driver. Gifts for the head chef can be delivered a day or two in advance, while gifts for the drivers can be sent before departure.

The witnesses are usually the leaders of the men's side, while the main wedding is officiated by the parents, but since the parents usually wear the corsage of their parents, so now more often than not, the leaders of the two sides of the leadership out of a representative of the main wedding to them, and the podium, in addition to the witnesses and officiating leaders wear a VIP corsage.

Experience:

Whether to consider having halal seats.

The length of the wedding ceremony is generally limited to about half an hour, and should not be too long or too short.

In order to ensure the comprehensiveness of the shooting, to provide better conditions for photography, videographer, it is best to prepare a camera car not counted in the convoy, for photographers and videographers to ride exclusively. In addition, it is now more popular to use two cameramen, shooting can be divided into the mother's home and the in-laws on both sides of the camera, the wedding can be a fixed camera, a mobile camera, the toast can be a camera with the bride and groom, a camera with the parents.

If the route to meet the bride is more complex, it is best to draw a road map, labeling the route, the location of the car, and other elements, and send a copy to each driver, so that even if the caravan is stuck by the traffic lights, and even some cars lost, at least you can follow the roadmap to reach the destination.

It is best to make a contact list of all the people involved in the wedding, print a few more copies to distribute, the elements include the master of ceremonies, witnesses, male parents, female parents, general management and other positions as well as their names, contact phone numbers, units and so on. This way, you can have a clear idea of what is going on, and if something goes wrong, you can directly find the person responsible.

The general wedding ceremony must be held in the program is: the entrance, witness, worship parents, thank the guests, couples worship, hand over the cup of wine, give each other tokens. In addition, some weddings now have games, pouring champagne tower, cutting the wedding cake, lighting candlesticks and other links, and these links are added according to the preferences of the couple.

Nowadays, almost all weddings are filmed by videographers and made into CD-ROMs for the couples. And now on the market there are two common formats of CD-ROM VCD and DVD.VCD resolution is 352 * 288, DVD resolution is 720 * 576, DVD clarity is obviously much higher than VCD, now the TV screen is generally large case, more can show with the difference.

Call the hotel's general manager ten minutes ahead of time when the convoy arrives at the hotel immediately so that the general manager can arrange for someone to meet the convoy.

Since nowadays wedding banquets often reach dozens of tables, the toast in this case, first of all, need to determine the time of the toast, and secondly, the VIP room by the newcomer to toast alone, while other rooms can be full of wine by the newcomer *** with the toast, or by the newcomer to the Coke-saturated glasses one by one and the guests to clink glasses and then *** with the toast, and to the hall, if time is running out, the newcomer will stand up on the stage to raise the cup, led by the master of ceremonies. The master of ceremonies led everyone *** with a toast.

Wedding season, the bride piled up make-up, and the studio make-up artist after all is limited, it is inevitable that the phenomenon of waiting in line. Therefore, the bride and the wedding studio negotiated makeup time should be the earlier the better.

Suggestion: Now the general wedding is held at 11:18, then the invitation is recommended to write to 10:58.

Tokens, the general man to the woman is relatively single, that is, the wedding ring, worn on the bride's left hand ring finger, and the woman to the man's tokens, the choice of scope is much more relaxed, can be a traditional ring, but also pens, cell phones and other items or have a memorial! The woman can give the man a traditional ring, a pen, a cell phone, or a commemorative item such as a movie ticket for all the movies we've seen since we met, and so on.

If the newlyweds can't hold their liquor, they can have a Coke instead.

The new couple will buy some of the festive items to adjust the atmosphere, which we recommend that you try not to buy the bar spray flowers, if you have to buy, try to buy non-staining clothing spray flowers, otherwise it will make the new couple very embarrassed.

It is recommended to use the reverse method to project the departure time of the car. The most important thing is to grasp the time from the bride's home to the hotel.

Because some of the groom is not followed by the caravan to meet the bride but waiting in the hotel, so if you have the conditions can be arranged a week in advance a few staff members to adapt to the line and the bride's home address, to do a good idea.

Delivering the drinks to the hotel in advance can avoid the trouble of transporting the drinks on the wedding day, and also facilitate the scheduling of the next day.

Wedding end of the wedding banquet began, is the wedding of the most likely to be chaotic time in order to avoid guests can not find their own position and because of unfamiliarity and cold guests, you can place table tags and in a prominent position marked with seating and room number of the photo board, so that the guests of their own seating at a glance. And one chief steward from each gender will lead the staff to guide the guests.

In order to enable more guests to participate in the wedding, the wedding date as much as possible to choose in the weekend, but be careful not to choose the wedding bunch of days, in order to avoid some guests need to participate in two weddings and other troubles. You can also have a big margin in the choice of hotels, officiants, celebration companies and so on.

Choose the celebration company, in the pursuit of low prices at the same time, can not ignore the quality of service, large companies due to the larger scale, a variety of procedures are complete, with a high level of planning, there are experienced professionals, the company's charges are to the current market prices of the various industries as a reference, the charges are reasonable, and the strict fulfillment of the contract. Some small workshop-type companies, operating without a license, or over-licensing, or even home office. Various formalities are not perfect, there is no strong economic strength to rely on, it is difficult to guarantee the quality of service. If the pursuit of low prices, it is easy to leave lifelong regrets.