Politeness demands reciprocity.

? "Book of Rites": "Courtesy is reciprocated, and you must not come."

? Politeness is not only a tradition in China, but also plays an indispensable role in life.

Through it, we can turn friendship into a deep foundation, love into eternity, and feelings into profundity and thoroughness ... "Ceremony" is the carrier of blessing, the expression of true feelings, the commemoration of eternal life and the beacon of good memories. It is the sunshine in cold winter and the shade in hot summer.

Therefore, China people meticulously practice the lessons of their ancestors. As big as the country: after the opening of the Silk Road, in addition to commercial prosperity, neighboring countries also have the custom of giving each other special products; Emperor Taizong's policy of "kissing and helping each other" took the princess with golden branches and jade leaves as a "big gift package", which contributed to the harmonious situation between the two places; Zheng He's voyages to the West in the Ming Dynasty not only publicized the national prestige, but also exchanged local specialties with more than 30 countries and regions and established diplomatic relations.

Small to ordinary people: friends and relatives get together, celebrate birthdays, and give gifts to each other during festivals ... among them, red envelopes are very traditional examples. When a friend gets married, giving a red envelope on his birthday is a blessing and a transmission of friendship. Giving red envelopes to children at home in the New Year is an expression of love and expectation for children. This happens in families with children. Who is in charge of this year's red envelopes? Children should take care of whoever they want, and they should take care of themselves. Some parents will come directly to distribute themselves, which will make the relationship with their children very stiff. In my family, I explain the meaning of this "ceremony" to my children before the New Year's Eve dinner, and then explain the meaning of politeness to her. Tell her which "gifts" can be kept for herself and which need to be returned. I don't interfere in my own life, just guide my children a little. After watching the movie "Peggy's New Year", the children know more about gratitude and return.

Ceremony is an attitude, but also a moral concept and custom. As a child, when you are young, you should get close to your teachers and friends and learn manners.

? February this year is the most humane and courteous month. First of all, it is the Spring Festival. It is essential to bring gifts to relatives and friends during the Spring Festival. This is also a tradition handed down. Giving gifts during the Spring Festival can enhance the feelings of both parties and eliminate misunderstandings. Through a way of communication such as giving gifts on holidays, the relationship has also been eased. After all, there is a "talent" as the foundation. It is also a respect for relatives and friends.

Then there is Valentine's Day, which is a festival that young people pay more attention to at present. Both male and female friends and married couples have the same right to enjoy this beautiful festival, and everyone has a stronger sense of ceremony. With the development and progress of society, the awareness of respecting and protecting women is also increasing. Therefore, every girl in the circle of friends on holidays is basking in happiness. I think when the woman asks him how he is, she should also prepare some surprises for the man or give them back. Because in love, men and women are equal. We should reciprocate, not just let one party pay the bill. Every time I receive a gift from Mr. Yuan, I will definitely return it to him afterwards, because giving and receiving can get the same happiness.

Someone once asked on the Zhihu: "Do you still want to stick to the relationship of giving but not responding?" More than half of people think they should give up. Therefore, in dealing with people, it is important to give and take.

Politeness is an education. We need the etiquette of interpersonal relationship. We need to let each other know that "I remember you, I care about you, and I need you".