Where do traditional men appear?

It is best to tell the truth without thinking, and how to express it is true; Lies are the most difficult to tell. If you don't make them up tightly, you will let them out carelessly. It's hard to be artificial, and nothing seems real. Therefore, the husband doesn't have to find his own guilt, make it difficult for himself, and eventually lose his wife's trust. Therefore, truthfulness is the most powerful and confident performance of men.

Second, profound.

Many intellectuals and older young men and women feel the same way with me: it is precisely because there are few profound men that men are the most attractive. The scale of "deep thinking" is more attractive than the academic ability of graduate students, the titles of directors and ministers, and the banknotes of ten thousand households.

Third, the mind.

A scheming husband makes his wife feel at ease and grateful for safety, so life is relatively easy at ordinary times, and he is rarely afraid of anything, so he can fully show his inner world, because they are confident that even if he thinks wrong or does wrong, his husband will not cling to them and will not forgive them.

Fourth, dare to do it.

The most important quality of a person is to dare to do something. Man's philosophy is action philosophy. Men should dare to put their ideas into action instead of sitting and shouting like a cripple. You can't be an armchair strategist like a scholar. Courage includes: dare to think, dare to say, dare to do, dare to win, dare to lose, dare to love, dare to hate, dare to fight, especially to fight, "a gentleman dares to do and dare to be."

Fifth, demeanor.

This is also very important. No matter how good the moral character is, no matter how correct the style is, no matter how noble the inner world is, it is difficult to touch a woman's heart without grace, but grace does not exclude personality. Manner is related to people's temperament, depends on physical quality, represents a person's personality tendency, and has a great relationship with occupation. For men, elegance is a kind of mature beauty, and women appreciate men's maturity most.

Sixth, be smart.

Good women like "bad men". Whiter, smarter and more popular. Isn't there a saying in tradition that "men are not bad and women don't love them"? The charm of "bad" boys is their mystery. They do strange things and don't explain much. The process of thinking about problems does not tell the whole story, but only gives the final conclusion. Such a clever husband makes his wife feel deeply, and this "ghost spirit" power of men, coupled with their excellent qualities, will have a strong attraction to women.

Seven, humor.

British Prime Minister Winston Churchill famously said, "Unless you understand the most interesting things in the world, you can't solve the most intractable problems." Funny husbands are mostly optimistic people. With a positive attitude towards life and indomitable spirit, such a husband will never frown when he is frustrated and encounters adversity. He will also make jokes, make others laugh, make people feel no pressure of adversity, make heavy life look relaxed and reduce troubles.

Eight, enterprising.

As the saying goes, man struggles upwards and water flows downwards, which is also a business of enterprises. People always have to do something in this world, especially men. A great philosopher once said: Smart people create more opportunities than they find. A person's enterprise should be reflected in every moment of his life. There are three words written on every brick on the life avenue: starting point. Dude, it's never too late to start. The key is to be enterprising.

Nine, romance.

In Carnegie's book The Road to Success, there is a famous saying: Many romantic dreams make more than 50% of marriages unhappy. Isn't it often said that "marriage is the grave of love"? The biggest difference between married couples' life and love is the lack of romance. I think a good husband should be romantic, and this romantic husband is very attractive.

Ten, adventure.

Some people say that there is only one mode of success: adventure. Compared with men, women are less adventurous, but they hope that they and their husbands dare to take risks. A wife likes an adventurous husband, because it will have a mysterious, dangerous and exploratory meaning, which will fascinate people, satisfy her "curiosity", feel "exciting enough" and make women infatuated.