How to make young people have the right view of marriage.

1 to be serious and dedicated to their feelings Whether it is love or marriage, there is no room for a third person to intervene. Because marriage and love are not child's play, so each other should be sincere and realistic. Facts have proved that using deceptive means to get along with each other can not harvest happiness. Therefore, once you have established a marriage or love relationship, you should be serious and single-minded, and should never change your mind and heart.2 Advocating like-minded love and marriageIn the world of marriage and love, like-mindedness should be put in the first place. As long as most of your ideological virtues, life interests, career ideals are the same, you can endure hardship together, and ultimately interpret a happy marriage or love.3 to understand that it is a responsibility and dedication in fact, love is not only to get, but more importantly, to give for each other. In daily life, each person has two aspects of responsibility: one is the responsibility of society, the other is the responsibility of the family. It is with this responsibility, can reflect a person's charisma, and thus have a strong dedication and a strong sense of responsibility, and ultimately have a happy love and marriage.4 more understanding, trust and tolerance, mutual respect in the process of marriage or love, everyone should have more trust, understanding and tolerance of their own other half. Because the two people who love each other, although both have an independent spirit and personality, but you can neither completely follow each other, nor can you occupy each other, so you should learn to let each other, respect each other.5 Independence and equality Everyone ultimately belongs to their own, and no one is destined to obey the compromise of other people, even in the marital life, but also should hold fast to their own individuality and dignity, to grasp the balance. Independence and autonomy of the concept of marriage, requires individuals to have their own judgments and choices, can not be people cloud, suitable for their own is the best, the views of others only for reference, otherwise it will live a particularly tired. Even into the marriage family, but also still focus on the inner self, adhere to the things that should be insisted on, keep the autonomy, couples to carry out a plain conversation, not only who is looking forward to.