Should the custom of "crying in mourning" be upheld?

Friends who often watch TV dramas should have seen such a scene? The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on some of the most popular products and services in the world, and you'll be able to do it in a way that makes you feel good about yourself. If the crane is the old man, that is, daughter-in-law, daughter, granddaughter and so on lying on the body to cry more common, if it is the death of the age of the person, crying people will be their own friends and relatives. This is a kind of unique in the rural areas of our country? Wailing? culture. So today, let's briefly discuss whether this unique culture should continue to be passed on?

? To have a definite answer to this question, first we need to explore the origin of this unique culture! Our country since ancient times are infected by Confucianism more, so it also creates our country? The state of etiquette? The title of the country. Indeed, Confucius founded Confucianism put forward the eight truths is the benchmark for people in the world, especially the word filial piety, but also let our country have? The word filial piety, in particular, has given our country the saying that filial piety is the first of all good deeds. The saying. So the question arises, after the death of a loved one want to show their filial piety, not sad and how? And the most intuitive manifestation of a person in grief is to cry! That's why people lie down on the coffin and cry non-stop at the deceased. This behavior was originally intended to be good, but in the baptism of time but gradually changed flavor!

? As we all know, a person does not actually cry and scream like this when he is really sad, instead he will be particularly silent. So we must question this ? These people who cry and cry and don't let go of the departed, are they really sorry for the departure of the departed? Are they truly saddened by the passing of the departed? My answer is: ? No, they are not all sincere! We don't rule out the possibility that there are genuine guests and loved ones at the time of mourning, but I think this is only a minority, and more mourners are just playing along.

? So, I think that this culture can be left behind!