What to say when inviting a girl to dinner

People tend not to value what they can easily get, but rather value what they can only get after a lot of effort. In the process of picking up girls, many guys will walk into the same misunderstanding, proactive for the girl to provide value, such as: inviting the girl to dinner or watching movies to participate in a variety of recreational activities, etc., and did not think with reverse thinking, so that the girl to ask you to eat or to ask you to watch a movie. The following Xiao Xiao will teach you how to guide the girl input, in the relationship to achieve a balance point, slowly get used to let the girl for you to pay.

In the invitation session, try to get the girl to ask you to dinner, a movie or a drink, etc..

Practice 1:

Boy: "Why don't you buy me dinner tomorrow"

Girl: "Why?" (waste test)

Boy: "No reason. What's the problem? You won't be so petty, right" (chasing girls tips ignore the girl's waste test, then waste test rhetorical question girls, and then give her a "big atmosphere" frame, the general girl will not be willing to admit that they are a petty person, because the girl is most afraid of being told that she is petty)

Girls: "I'm not the one who's petty," he said.

Girl: "I'm not that cheap, just please."

Boy: "Are you going to casually talk about it, or do you really mean to invite it" (Push and pull method, according to the principle of consistency to make the girl accept your obedience ladder)

Girl: "Of course it's true, it's no big deal."

Boy: "Where and when"

Girl: "So-and-so Gourmet Restaurant."

Boy: "Okay, see you there."

Practice 2:

Boy: "Why don't you buy me dinner tomorrow"

Girl: "Sure, no problem."

Boy: "Are you just saying that casually, or do you really mean to invite?" (Push-pull method, based on the principle of consistency to get the girl to accept your obedience ladder)

Girl: "It's not like it's a big deal to ask you to dinner, it's okay."

Boys: "Time and place" (further implementation of details to make things more specific and real)

Girls: "So-and-so gourmet restaurant."

Boy: "Okay, see you there."

Many times a girl will be willing to buy you a meal. However, many times a woman's word is not to be trusted, and even though she has said yes to buying you dinner, it cannot be taken seriously because the next interaction is not connected in any way to this one. Dating tips you need to change from the traditional values, can no longer pay for the purpose of input, should be from the "pay for the king" to "free for the king" of the change.