How to look at the character of the outside soft inside

Exterior softness: not only knife mouth and bean curd heart, mainly refers to the appearance of the character seems to be relatively strong, very strong, everything wants to pull out, not to lose, but the heart is very hot, kind, and even fragile, in order to cover up the inner vulnerability, so that the appearance seems to be very strong.

Exterior softness and inner strength: the surface looks very soft, if not shocking, let people pity, but inwardly very strong, do things have their own ideas, do not tend to inflame, perseverance and firmness, have the courage to use their own seemingly weak arms to shoulder the heavy responsibility.

And such a person to get along with, you have to understand him (her) from all aspects, everyone has a different personality and characteristics, know their characteristics, then try to understand them will be easy to get along a little.