What are some examples of family education that reflect the good family style of the ancients?

Family is the cell of society. A good family style will inevitably form a good social atmosphere, which is a necessary condition for the prosperity of the nation and the country.

Our Chinese nation has a tradition of attaching importance to family style, paying attention to morality, managing the family diligently, attaching importance to family ties and strictly educating children. With the development of society, we should inherit and carry forward this fine tradition under new conditions.

Family style stories of the ancients

Sima Guang taught his son well.

Sima Guang, whose real name is Shi Jun, is called Mr. Sushui. Northern Song Dynasty statesman, historian, official to prime minister.

Although Sima Guang is in a high position, he is strict with his godson and attaches great importance to cultivating children's awareness of self-discipline and self-improvement. He wrote an article that has been handed down to this day, "frugality to show health." He summed up the lesson that many sons of high officials and dignitaries were decadent because they could not stand on their own feet in the shadow of their ancestors, and warned his sons: "Virtue comes from thrift." "frugality is famous, extravagance is defeated."

Because of well-educated children, Sima Guang's sons are humble and polite, and have a successful life without relying on their father's power or family wealth. As a result, people all over the world know Rong Zhi, but they all know Sima's son.

Ji Hongchang didn't forget his father's instructions.

Ji Hongchang was born in Fugou, Henan. One of the leaders of the Chasui Anti-Japanese Coalition. He was a soldier in Feng Yuxiang's army in his early years. He was promoted to battalion commander and division commander because of his bravery and good fighting skills, and later served as commander of the Kuomintang and chairman of the Ningxia provincial government.

1920, 25-year-old Ji Hongchang was a battalion commander at that time, and his father Ji Junting was seriously ill. He said to Ji Hongchang, who came to visit, "Being an official should be innocent and modest, and think more of the poor in the world. Being an official is not allowed to get rich. Otherwise, I can't sleep in the grave. " Ji Hongchang promised tearfully.

After Ji Hongchang's father died of illness, he wrote the words "Official is not allowed to get rich" on the porcelain bowl, and asked the ceramic factory to follow the example of batch firing and distribute the porcelain bowl to all officers and men. At the meeting to distribute porcelain bowls, he said, "Although I am Ji Hongchang, I will never oppress the people and plunder their wealth. I must bear in mind my father's teaching that being an official is not to make a fortune, but to do good for the poor in the world. Please supervise me. "

Ji Hongchang's words and deeds were consistent, and he was innocent and upright all his life, serving the people everywhere. When Japanese imperialism invaded China and the people were in dire straits, he opposed Chiang Kai-shek's surrender policy and rose up against Japan. Killed by Kuomintang reactionaries at the age of 39.

The president taught his son to stand on his own two feet.

Former US President Ronald Reagan is not only famous, but also rich. But he strictly requires children to stand on their own feet and never let them rely on their parents. After his son lost his job, he lived on welfare while looking for a job.

The above is the whole content of the "Ancient Family Style Story" shared by Bian Xiao. Let's talk about our family rules and regulations, bask in our family style and tutor, and feel an upward force!