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Parental speech, family education speech
In April this year, Dehong Prefecture launched a family discipline style construction activity with the theme of "telling family history, establishing family rules and passing on family traditions", calling on party organizations at all levels in the prefecture, the vast number of party member and students, with the focus on party member leading cadres to take action, draw nutrition and wisdom from the excellent traditional culture of the Chinese nation, tap the essence of Dehong's national family discipline, rural rules and regulations, and official ethics proverbs, and guide the vast number of party member cadres to be kind, honest and cultivate themselves.
The main contents of family style construction are the collection of "the most beautiful family rules and family instructions", the hanging of "the most beautiful family rules and family instructions" in the hall, the preaching of "the most beautiful family style story" and the education of "the most beautiful family rules and family instructions" on campus. Leading cadres in party member take the lead in "telling family history, establishing family rules and passing on family traditions" to drive family members to take action and build a "clean house"; Party organizations at all levels combine family style construction with voluntary service in party member, outstanding party member and outstanding grassroots cadres, with daily education management in party member, with students' moral education, with the study and education of "two studies and one doing" and the study and education of "entering the party school, classroom and media" in party constitution, and bind people with standardized family training, shape people with excellent family style and infect people with vivid stories.
As of June 30th, Dehong Prefecture * * * has organized 458 times and 23,379 person-times, collected 6,892 "the most beautiful family training", and 7 144 party member cadres hung "the most beautiful family training" in the hall and preached "the most beautiful family style story" 192 times.
In addition, the Commission for Discipline Inspection of Dehong Prefecture has also set up an educational column of "Inheriting and Building Family Style" and established an interactive platform of "Excellent Family Style", highlighting "Good Family Style" in the form of words, photos or videos, encouraging the masses, netizens, Weibo and WeChat users to actively participate and interact, so that people can be educated and edified in the interaction. The State Commission for Discipline Inspection will also publish (broadcast) the brochure "Dehong's Most Beautiful Family Rules and Family Training Style" in the State Commission for Discipline Inspection, the website of the State Supervision Bureau, Breeze magazine, Dehong Tuanjiebao, Dehong Radio and Television Station and Dehong. Com, so as to promote the good party style and folk customs.
Parents' Speech, Family Education Speech 2 Leaders, Teachers and Students:
Hello everyone! My name is Zhang Ziyi, and the topic of my speech today is my family style.
Family style, as its name implies, is the family atmosphere. So, what is my family style?
After dinner that day, I sat on the sofa watching TV, but I was still thinking: What is my family style? Mother's voice came over: "Have you finished your homework?" I didn't move. The TV in front of me is off. "Don't you know what you should do now?" Alas! I have been listening to this sentence since kindergarten. Go and do your homework. "This is an old problem. Do what you should do, can't you remember? " -Isn't that my family style?
Growing up, when it was my turn to do my homework, the TV never turned on and there was no noise to disturb me. When you finish your homework for the day, you can only watch TV or play computer. In primary school, whether it is winter or summer, every night at 9:
00 am is a must to sleep, and there is no way to play. Now I'm in junior high school. I can only sleep after finishing my homework, and I'm free on Sunday. It turns out that my parents want me to form a good habit of doing things seriously, regularly and scientifically.
Every time a guest comes to my house, my parents teach me how to say hello and are very hospitable. When grandparents come, my mother always makes a big table, and the best food is always placed in front of grandparents. Crabs are also the biggest for them, while my mother only eats the smallest. Come to think of it, isn't this my family style, too Respect the old and love the young, be polite and courteous.
When I think like this, I seem to remember a lot. Our family is together, or pay attention to national hotspots. Or play some fun games. I have never heard my parents talk about the right and wrong between neighbors, nor have I argued about the gains and losses of relatives and friends. They just do things seriously and behave themselves seriously. This is my family style, too. Do something useful, be an upright gentleman, not a villain.
I think: my family style is not the virtue of the Chinese nation for thousands of years: virtuous, conscientious and moderate.
Only the national is the world. I also want to say: small families shape everyone, everyone shapes the country, and the country affects the world!
Throughout the 5,000-year history of China, China has long been known as a country of etiquette. Confucius advocates that "the benevolent loves others" and respects, understands, cares, loves and helps others with the heart of "benevolence", which is an important factor of social harmony.
The same is true between countries. Some countries always pretend to be the boss, hoping that other countries will mess up and take advantage of themselves. You can never treat others with a caring attitude. Pick something today and do something tomorrow. Isn't this a despicable act that China people scoff at?
Students, let's join hands and influence the world with the pure family style of thousands of families and the spirit of our nation, so that the world can be "kind" as soon as possible!
Before the summer vacation, under the strong recommendation of the Chinese teacher, I bought the book Family Instructions of Harvard. This book is dedicated to all parents and their growing children in the world.
William Bernard introduced in the preface, "Every story in Harvard family precepts has rich educational functions and profound life significance, which can not only inspire teenagers to think about society and life from multiple angles, but also ignite the spark of wisdom in their inner judgment, so that they can see the sea from a drop of water and the whole universe from a ray of sunshine. Almost all young people are eager to have a successful life. However, some of them often get twice the result with half the effort because of the lack of correct teaching, and even go astray carelessly. The concept formed in adolescence will affect a person's life in different forms. Therefore, at the beginning of life, we should let them accept noble thoughts, cultivate good conduct and form healthy habits. This is a teaching material for children and a self-cultivation guide for adults. Many ambitious children always think that children should do one thing or another, but they often run counter to it. Parents think they are smarter than their children, but this is not the case. If we don't do better than children, we must at least grow up with them. "
This book shows the philosophy of life from ten aspects: personality, dream, true love, success, thinking, psychology, wisdom, creativity, courage and consciousness with vivid and interesting stories. There are many vivid examples in the book, which make people think about their life and work after reading: people should live a valuable life, have dreams, strive for self-improvement, believe in themselves, have an optimistic attitude and so on. After reading it, I feel that this book is not only for children and parents, but also particularly beneficial to educators. It not only enriches one's own knowledge, but also provides rich materials for educating students in the future. Education is not just preaching. We can use these vivid examples to infect students, urge them to think, motivate them to be positive and work hard, and make students establish a correct outlook on life and values. At the same time, it also makes us think about our lives.
Every story in Harvard Family Instructions has rich educational functions and profound life significance, which can be said to be brilliant and well written. Every time you finish reading a story, you will feel that there is another sky in front of you. It enlightens our thinking and brings us more approachable truth and spiritual understanding. We can start reading from any page of this book, and we can start reading in any mood. Even if it only takes a few minutes, you can learn a lot from it. It tells us that life will be full of smiles and sunshine as long as we face life with a sunny smile and mentality in life and work.
I want to recommend the book Family Instructions of Harvard to all my friends, because the profound truth contained in the book can benefit people for life.
China culture attaches great importance to the cultivation of family style, emphasizing the formulation and inheritance of family rules, family training, family training, family training and other ethical suggestions and norms. Almost everyone in China is more or less influenced and restricted by the traditional family model. It is these seemingly ordinary and simple family instructions that actually contain profound truths, which bring us warmth, security, comfort and support, and also bring us the responsibility and mission of protecting our family and defending our country.
Family style is the ethos, style and fashion of a family. Family style determines folk customs, and folk customs determine national style. Now the changes of society and family style reflect the changes of world outlook, outlook on life and values, and the changes of the times reflect people.
Mencius said: "The foundation of the world is in the country, and the foundation of the country is at home." Family is the cell of society and country, and family style is the natural cornerstone and concentrated embodiment of national style. China's social transformation has been accelerated, but the role of the family as an individual's material and spiritual harbor has not fundamentally changed. The inheritance and cultivation of fine family traditions is not only the responsibility of the state and society, but also the mission of families and individuals. Only a good family style can have a good national style; Only by revisiting the family style can we reorganize the national style.
Therefore, family style is a kind of power, a kind of power to be believed. It dominates the way of thinking and behavior of family members, and also determines the fate and future of the whole family and even the country.
Genealogy is the development history of a family. To grow and develop, a family needs not only rich material conditions, but also spiritual conditions sufficient to "strengthen the family", and the formation of a good family style is one of the foundations and contents of this spiritual condition.
Family rules, family precepts, and proverbs of governing the country preserved in the genealogy discuss the construction of family environment and family atmosphere with a positive attitude of life value and social value from the beginning.
Another practical significance of genealogy research is to meet the needs of Chinese at home and abroad to "seek roots and worship ancestors" through genealogy research. "The tree attracts the wind, and the leaves fall to the roots". Overseas Chinese are ecstatic to see the prosperity of their motherland. They have returned to China to seek their roots, visited relatives and friends, generously donated money and devoted themselves to the economic construction of their hometown. As a total record of a family's blood relationship, genealogy closely links overseas Chinese with their relatives in the motherland.
In genealogy culture, we can not only see the development, rise and fall, historical changes of our surnames, but also the political, economic, cultural, social changes, local customs, value orientation, living conditions and so on in a certain period. These rich records are really rich treasures to be developed in the field of China's historiography. It can also provide a lot of reliable information for the study of family structure and function, eugenics, folklore, local history, village development history, local customs, regional culture and other fields.
As Bing Xin said, genealogy is a family history connecting the preceding with the following. Paying attention to and caring about family history is the starting point of loving the motherland and the people. This plays a vital role in the construction of contemporary spiritual civilization.
The family is the basic unit of society. Under the guidance of socialist spiritual civilization, every family formulates family rules and family precepts of modern families and forms a good family style without violating national laws, morality and culture. With the help of internet genealogy as a tool to inherit family culture (family rules, family training, family style), we will continue the prosperity of the family and benefit future generations; To achieve the four goals of a happy family: harmony, civilization, health and prosperity.
Family rules: Family rules refer to the code of conduct stipulated by a family, which is generally passed down by a family to educate and regulate future generations. It is also called family law. The so-called "national laws, family rules" means that a country has national laws and a family has family rules; The rules of this family are equivalent to the laws of the country. Mencius said, "If you don't obey the rules, you can't be Fiona Fang". If a family wants to flourish, it must know how to behave. Family members who violate family rules will be punished like citizens who violate the law.
Family instruction: Family instruction refers to the instructions for children and grandchildren to live and manage their families in the world. Family instruction is an important part of China's traditional culture and genealogy, which has played an important role in personal cultivation and family planning in the history of China. Morality includes social morality, professional ethics and family virtues. Family precepts belong to the category of family virtues. Family and country are isomorphic, and a family's family precepts are equivalent to a country's moral standards, such as Zeng Guofan's family precepts, Zhu Zi's family precepts, Yan Family precepts and so on. Family precepts are moral standards for family members to be human beings. Violating family precepts will lead to moral condemnation.
Family style: Family style refers to the traditional fashion of a family or clan. In other words, a family's lifestyle and cultural atmosphere constitute a family style. As the name implies, family style is the ethos, style and fashion of a family. In other words, when a family's family rules and family instructions form a family's public behavior habits, it constitutes a family style, which is also a family or a family's family style culture. Genealogy is a tool to carry family culture, and Internet genealogy is a new generation tool to carry family culture. A family without family rules lacks the rules of being a man and doing things; Families without tutors lack standards for educating their children to be human beings; A family without family style lacks an environment for continuous prosperity.
What family is your family? The ancients said: a family with a genealogy belongs to a family that is reliable in farming and reading; Families with genealogical collections belong to aristocratic families; Families with genealogy and family rules belong to scholarly families; Families with genealogy, family rules and family training belong to wealthy families; A family with genealogy, family rules, family precepts and family style belongs to the family of princes and princes.
I am thinking: What family does my family belong to? Although we have no explicit provisions, our family has inherited the fine qualities of the Chinese nation from generation to generation, and unconsciously continues such a family style: family morality is to respect the old and love the young, be tolerant and fraternity, be kind to others, and pay attention to courtesy and humility; Family rules are standing posture, mutual respect and love, diligence and housekeeping, etc. Family precepts are honesty and trustworthiness, courage to take responsibility, innocence, love and dedication, etc. With the progress of the times, our family style should also add new content; Respect children and be good at learning.
Parents' speech and family style tutor's speech are six family styles-a deeply touched sentence, which has filled me with gratitude. In my life, I have been influenced by the unique family style, which has changed me from a little princess who "reaches out with clothes" to a positive, modest, honest and trustworthy boy. Listen to me slowly.
As the saying goes, "Father's love is a boat, while mother's love is a sail." Father loves to break the waves, and maternal love guides me to drive in the vast sea of people without losing my way. They let me ride the wind and waves in the growing ocean, so that I am not afraid of the dangers before. "Honesty and trustworthiness, being honest with others" has become my good family style imperceptibly with the pace of time. Just like the soft hands in spring warm my heart, make the flowers in my heart bloom brilliantly, and carry forward the traditional virtues of civilization.
"Never mind hurting others, never mind stopping others" is one of my family traditions. Deep education: in life, you can't have a little harmful thoughts, and you can't lose a little correct heart to prevent bad people. "And we should respect our elders, be diligent and thrifty, be honest and trustworthy, be willing to organize people, and be neither arrogant nor impetuous. I remember that time when I was a child, when I was traveling in the suburbs, I was idle, holding my mother's big hand with my little hand and looking at the beautiful picture. Suddenly "bah", a mouthful of phlegm jumped out of my mouth and then jumped to the ground disobediently. At this time, my mother's clairvoyant ears and clairvoyant eyes noticed my movements, and I immediately opened my mouth to catch fire.
How can you destroy the environment like this? Do you know that?/You know what? Do you know that?/You know what? Sanitation people go out early and return late, no matter what holidays there are, it's okay! Your uncivilized behavior will deeply hurt their hearts! You can't hurt anyone! Listening to my mother's endless lessons, I gradually lowered my little face as red as a little apple to the ground-after that, I understood a truth: trivial things in life may turn "not hurting people's hearts" into "not hurting people's hearts", so even this trivial thing, no matter how small, taught me to treat people. Finally, I want to say, "Good family style has nurtured me and made me!"
Family style is like the saying goes, "sow an act, reap a habit, sow a habit, reap a character, sow a character, and reap a destiny." Yes, family style sowed and harvested a habit, a character and a destiny for us, and finally made me such a person. It also gives me a foothold in skills and makes my life colorful, carefree and orderly. Now I am the tree you watered, and you are a small umbrella to help me keep out the wind and rain. Thank you, you have made me, and I will repay your kindness with my actions!
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