How do grandparents educate their children and grandchildren?

Nowadays, parents don't really want grandparents to educate their children and grandchildren, because they think their ideas are outdated, so how to raise grandchildren scientifically? The following is the way I take my grandparents to educate my children and grandchildren scientifically for your reference.

Grandparents' methods of scientifically educating their children and grandchildren

1, adjust your mentality, and you must never prefer boys to girls. This is very important, if it is a woman.

Children who don't like or spoil boys will seriously affect the feelings of a family and cannot achieve harmony and happiness. Grandchildren, even grandchildren, should be treated equally, and don't let any child feel left out.

Playing with grandchildren is helping young couples.

Grandparents' greatest help to young couples in raising children is to have fun with their grandchildren. This not only conforms to the child's natural playful character, promotes his healthy growth, but also allows young parents to free up their hands for work and housework.

Children's favorite sports games are squeezing, sumo, finger sumo, tickling, hide-and-seek, horse riding, making swords with advertising paper rolls and so on. Try to play with your grandchildren, and the children will giggle happily. You can also play some traditional games, such as origami and rope twirling. In addition, toys made of simple natural materials in the past, such as bamboo boats, acorn tops and puppets, will be very happy if they can be made with grandchildren. There are counters selling simple toys in the shopping mall, where you can find toys such as paper balloons and thread bags. It's not bad to buy these things for fun. If a child meets a favorite book, he always wants you to read it several times. At this time, you can hold the child on your knee and read the book several times to make him get what he wants. Or you can tell stories you heard as a child and develop a little mystery.

Step 3 Stop "Snacks and TV"

Children are an energy source, jumping around and never getting tired. This is the "power" of children. Although the elderly prefer silence, they should never give their children snacks and watch TV just for the sake of silence. This is actually the worst way of education, which not only makes grandchildren's teeth worse, but also makes them nearsighted, and even becomes a lonely "little TV fan".

Therefore, when the elderly take care of their grandchildren, they should try to go outdoors. In a safe and open space, let children disperse their energy to the maximum extent, so that they can be alone quietly or chat with other old people.

4. Educate children to respect their opinions and be consistent. Whether it is the cultivation of behavior habits or the care of children when they are sick, they should stand on the same front with their parents, and they should not blindly cover up their children according to their own inherent thinking, let alone blame their parents in front of them. Some grandparents are eager to protect their calves. The grandson cried, and they in turn blamed the child for being too strict, which directly led to the child's arrogance and selfishness from childhood and his ignorance of filial piety when he grew up. If the child has a slight runny nose and cough, he will send it to the hospital without thinking, or let the baby have an intravenous drip directly. This is the wrong way to hurt children's health. It is necessary to communicate with children more about their children and increase their parenting knowledge in all aspects in order to do a good job of grandparents.

The misunderstanding of grandparents' education for their children and grandchildren

1。 Pay too much attention to children. Things that the baby could have done by himself, such as eating, brushing teeth and changing clothes, are taken care of by parents. Excessive care makes children lose the opportunity to exercise.

2。 Supervise the children. I'm afraid my children will make mistakes. I should urge my child to do everything and always check his behavior. It is easy for children to form dependence and inertia, as well as distrust of adults.

3。 Punish children severely. This kind of education method originates from the traditional educational concept of "the dutiful son is born under the stick". They feel that children should be strictly disciplined, with more criticism than encouragement and more punishment than reward. This kind of education is also easy for children to have serious inferiority, autism or rebellious psychology.

Matters needing attention in grandparents' scientific education for their children and grandchildren

1。 We should have the awareness of never too old to learn and raise grandchildren scientifically.

The older a person is, the softer his personality is, and it is easy for his grandson's interest to lead him to two extremes, or he just lacks softness and becomes a little emperor, letting him have the final say; Either the softness is lacking in rigidity, the clothes are reaching out, the food is open, and the dependence is particularly strong. Old people must learn more from young people and see how young people take care of their children now. Don't use the old method completely. Parenting technology is constantly improving and should keep pace with the times. For example; Today's children don't eat oil and salt until they are one year old, and they all use diapers until they are two years old. These are all based on science and are good for their health.

2。 Wear the right clothes and exercise easily.

Grandparents or grandparents usually wear more clothes when they bring their grandchildren, because the elderly are afraid of the cold. If they are not careful, they will get prickly heat in warm weather and wear too many clothes in cold weather, which is not convenient for children to exercise.

3。 It is necessary to cultivate the habit of grandchildren to concentrate on their own meals.

First, cultivate the habit of sitting and eating for grandchildren. Some old people like to chase after their grandchildren when they are playing or don't want to eat. This habit is not good. If the grandchildren don't want to eat (except for illness), or eat while playing, they should be hungry, so don't give them snacks. If cured twice, the children will remember. In order to keep the child from running around while eating, another way is to sit on a higher stool so that he can't get down by himself. Second, try to let the grandson learn to eat by himself at the age of one, don't be afraid of trouble, and cultivate his practical ability.

4。 It is necessary to cultivate grandson's habit of proper exercise.

Some grandchildren are particularly active, so it is necessary to cultivate his habit of sitting and listening to stories and music; Some grandchildren are too lazy to exercise, so they should be trained to do proper exercise. Because the elderly do not exercise as much as their young parents do, they should cultivate their exercise habits intentionally.

5。 Bring grandchildren to play with other children and cultivate their social skills.

Take more grandchildren out to play, and some grandparents or grandparents do better in this respect; Some of them are not enough, because the old people have limited social scope and need to create conditions.

6。 It is necessary to cultivate grandson's language expression ability.

Before the grandson learns to speak, his grandparents should have a short talk with him, cultivate his hearing ability and imitation ability, and let him listen and speak more after he learns to speak. For example, pointing to objects and saying names, telling stories to others, etc. Especially playing games and interacting with other children.