My mom's old-fashioned thinking how to do?

This situation can only communicate with your mom more, and parents in the ideological conflict is very normal. Our generation went to college, the eyes wide, and parents of that generation in the ideological conflict is inevitable, age, parents of their own sermons, age, their own parents are also easy to sermons, sermons will be disputes, affecting the mood and damage to the relationship.

But are parents always right? The parents are not always right, and if they are not, of course they can be disobeyed, or even persuaded to change their minds. But be careful, even if there is a contradiction in thinking, you can't give your parents a look, just keep a good attitude, and you'll be able to make yourself comfortable, and your parents will be comfortable too. Because if you show your contempt and impatience, this will make parents very uneasy.

In fact, sometimes we can't blame our parents for being old-fashioned in their thinking, and these old ideas were trendy when they were young. For example, my grandmother still thinks that state-run enterprises are good, but when they were young, they were really great. The reason why it's an old idea now is because their minds didn't progress with the trend, and it's not their fault, it's ours.

Their ideas were formed over decades, and people in that era generally had a low level of education. Acceptance of new modern trends requires a certain cultural foundation, so self-education and independent acceptance was very difficult for the previous generation and even the one before that. And we are the mainstream of this generation, are highly educated youth, then we should help our parents to follow up and change the old ideas and concepts.

People are historical people, all their past constitutes the way they think, learn to understand and communicate. Believe me, after you've been through the days of having no food or money to eat or spend like they have, your mind won't be any better than theirs, and God's perspective on TV is a trick.

So be more tolerant, understanding and communicative with your mom. You can slowly change her mind, I believe that as long as it makes sense, your mom will certainly agree.